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    Yup 2 years of an LDR and I finally move in with DB and 1 MONTH after moving up here it's over.. it's wonderful can hardly express my sarcasm. I kind of knew it was over, he's been shutting me out since I've been here. Hasn't acted like a boyfriend AT ALL.. pushing me away.. pushing all of my buttons. He's just not ready for that step yet at 25 and that's fine I'll move on. I really thought I had it right this time but he just wasn't ready yet. Oh well what can you do.. shed a few tears pick up and keep on going. I'm moving back to Ohio tomorrow and he's going to ship the rest of my stuff later, which is fine I'm over it.. there's nothing here that I absolutely must have any more that I wont be taking with me.

    I hate break ups.. especially when there's nothing you can do about it.. they're just done no ifs ands or buts about it. Add it to my list of failures I guess.


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    Well I just made it to my folks house. The first 24 hours were the worst.. I cried more than I have in a long long time and yesterday while driving I went through every emotion possible and after driving for about 6 hours in the mountains on crazy curvy roads and seeing every deer in West Virginia thinking about crossing the road I decided I was too spent to keep going so I stopped at a Days Inn.

    Today I woke up completely refreshed and a lot closer to being myself again. I just made it to my folks house so I'm back in good ol' Cincinnati.. again. I can't really be mad at ex-DB because I've done that before where I thought I was ready and then I ended up sabotaging the relationship because I really wasn't ready.. of course I didn't ask someone to move 14 hours and then only gave it a month.. but hey what can ya do. I'm taking the weekend to relax and move my stuff back in and then I'll pick up and move on with my life... Now if only that multi-millionaire who loves animals will come around I'll be set!! j/k j/k
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    sorry girl must be somebody better for you out there.
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    I'm sorry this happened.
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    Don't consider it a failure K, it just didn't work. You want different things, doesnt mean it failed. I know you aren't totally surprised by it, but it still sucks.

    Ugh, Im sorry darlin.

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    Let's beat him up!!
    Sorry this happened!
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    I'm sorry, love.
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    Sorry this happened to you
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