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    Sad I feel awful. Truly terrible.

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    at least you told him the truth now rather than leading him on and making it harder on both of you later on. Don't feel like a jerk...you saved him a lot of heartache down the road.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ilovemyairmen View Post
    at least you told him the truth now rather than leading him on and making it harder on both of you later on. Don't feel like a jerk...you saved him a lot of heartache down the road.
    I agree




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    This shouldn't have happened in the first place, I feel.
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    I hate hate HATE hurting people too. But at least you were honest about it and didn't lead him on, and I am sure he will appreciate that. Maybe not now, but one day!
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    After sleeping on it, I still feel bad. I still feel like crying. I liked him but I don't think enough to want to be in a relationship. I feel like I do everything wrong when it comes to guys. Tyler. Branden. Kyle. I pretty much suck. I can't help but be down on myself.
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    You're still learning how to handle relationships, and people are going to get hurt. Isn't that just life? I get where you're coming from, I'd be all torn up too...

    I think you should forgive yourself at least this once. I think you deserve for being honest. This is just a minor road bump on the road to love

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    Should I say anything or wait for him to say something, if he even wants to talk to me? I really don't want us to stop talking forever. I'm already not ever talking to someone else I viewed as a friend and that sucks too. With Tyler, I don't really feel bad. But Branden and Kyle I do.
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    If you REALLY stand by what you said about just wanting to be friends (which is perfectly understandable and fine!) then I think you should wait for him to come to you. Otherwise he might get his hopes up, ya know? Which would not be entirely your fault but you'd probably end up hurt too if you upset him again, ya know? You need a spa day!!

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    I guess you're right. I sooo wish I could have a spa day. But I'm poor. And I doubt either parent will give me money for that. When I told my mom what happened she responded with "You'll live." Um. Thanks mom! I know that. Way to care and be sympathetic. I don't understand why she was so abrasive just then. It hurt.
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