So sick of it all - Life After Love

Imagineyouandme · 03-05-2009, 03:57 PM

Matt and I have been separated for 6 months already.. We've tried to make it work.
But every other day it's the same thing, he doesn't know what he wants.. He doesn't think we can make it work.
I don't think that I'm strong enough to keep this up. I'm raising 3 kids on my own.. I'm exhausted!
So today he brought up DIVORCE again.. so I said fine.
I'm not going to beg him anymore! I need to think of me and my kids from now on.. (I know that I've said that before)

I have to be strong and not call him!

harrisonsdream · 03-05-2009, 04:00 PM

i wish you luck.

sarahmarlene · 03-05-2009, 04:00 PM

i'm very sorry but i hope this is the best for you and your children.

shaunti06 · 03-05-2009, 04:01 PM

just take it one day at a time. You now need to concentrate on what is best for you and your children.

jessi01 · 03-05-2009, 04:03 PM

I'm sorry, I know it's hard. Maybe if you try to focus on you and not try to work on things with him, just show him that you don't need him, maybe he'll wise up and realize you are what he wants, kwim? I'm not the best at advice on this because I can't take my own damn advice and it took me this long to no longer want to speak to my DH. It might help and take some pressure off of you to not worrying about working on the relationship, just work on you and focus on your kids

I'm sorry I don't have much else to say as far as advice goes.

~~BJo~~ · 03-05-2009, 04:06 PM

Imagineyouandme · 03-05-2009, 04:10 PM

Thanks girls!

kt1449 · 03-05-2009, 04:25 PM

Honey I am so sorry for what you are going through. If you ever need anything, feel free to let me know! I know it is not near the same, but I am going through a split as well, and just trying to not call or talk to him. Its hard. But we are both strong women, and we will make it through this!

Imagineyouandme · 03-05-2009, 04:34 PM

Originally Posted by kt1449

Honey I am so sorry for what you are going through. If you ever need anything, feel free to let me know! I know it is not near the same, but I am going through a split as well, and just trying to not call or talk to him. Its hard. But we are both strong women, and we will make it through this!

Thank you so much! If you need to talk, I'm here as well!

LoveDisappears · 03-05-2009, 06:05 PM

I'm so sorry! Have you talked about counseling?

03-05-2009, 03:57 PM	#1 (permalink)
Imagineyouandme Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: San Diego! Posts: 2,555 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 20%	So sick of it all Matt and I have been separated for 6 months already.. We've tried to make it work. But every other day it's the same thing, he doesn't know what he wants.. He doesn't think we can make it work. I don't think that I'm strong enough to keep this up. I'm raising 3 kids on my own.. I'm exhausted! So today he brought up DIVORCE again.. so I said fine. I'm not going to beg him anymore! I need to think of me and my kids from now on.. (I know that I've said that before) I have to be strong and not call him!

03-05-2009, 04:01 PM	#4 (permalink)
shaunti06 So uhm.... hi Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Ft. Bliss Posts: 480 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 17%	just take it one day at a time. You now need to concentrate on what is best for you and your children. __________________ *Much love to my Wifeys ASingingWife, Littlebit0429, and LogansWifey4707*

03-05-2009, 04:03 PM	#5 (permalink)
jessi01 In my own little crazy world . . it's ok, they know me here. Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 3,350 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 2% Longevity: 20%	I'm sorry, I know it's hard. Maybe if you try to focus on you and not try to work on things with him, just show him that you don't need him, maybe he'll wise up and realize you are what he wants, kwim? I'm not the best at advice on this because I can't take my own damn advice and it took me this long to no longer want to speak to my DH. It might help and take some pressure off of you to not worrying about working on the relationship, just work on you and focus on your kids I'm sorry I don't have much else to say as far as advice goes. __________________ The greatness of a nation and it's moral progress can be judged by the way it's animals are treated ~ Gandhi www.frenchbulldogrescue.org

03-05-2009, 04:25 PM	#8 (permalink)
kt1449 Tough times don't last....but tough people do. Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Mt Pleasant, MI Posts: 4,291 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 25%	Honey I am so sorry for what you are going through. If you ever need anything, feel free to let me know! I know it is not near the same, but I am going through a split as well, and just trying to not call or talk to him. Its hard. But we are both strong women, and we will make it through this! __________________ Gettin hype for my wild Single-Girl's weekend with BuckeyeAGF!!

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LoveDisappears ..is brought to you by the letters W.T.F.! Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Ocala, FL Posts: 14,693 Classifieds: (3) Activity: 69% Longevity: 26%	I'm so sorry! Have you talked about counseling? __________________ Loves her Beautiful Wifey, Liegh. 12.05.08 KennyB = Greatness!

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03-05-2009, 04:00 PM	#2 (permalink)
harrisonsdream Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 52,155 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 69%	i wish you luck.

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sarahmarlene Account Closed Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 805 Blog Entries: 6 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 19%	i'm very sorry but i hope this is the best for you and your children.

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03-05-2009, 04:10 PM	#7 (permalink)
Imagineyouandme Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: San Diego! Posts: 2,555 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 20%	Thanks girls!