finally over - Life After Love

Astra · 08-29-2008, 10:34 AM

so my marriage is finally over.
apart of me really doesnt care.i just think its ****ty he went on so long lying to me when he felt another way.

he decided to wait 2 weeks until i was supposed to go back to ft.polk to be with him.to tell me that "ive been feeling for months now that its not gunna work so im giving you your freedom"
out of NOWHERE.i had been having concerns with myself and tried to talk to him about it and he just dumps that on me.

i mean we have had problems with our marriage since day one.*which is sad*
i tried to make things work.our finaces are crap cause he just wont stop spending.and everytime i tried to help settle those too appearently i was just being a *****.because id get onto him for spending it on stuff we dont need nor have the money for.

it felt like a one sided battle to make things work ._.

plus he was controlling so its probably a good thing i got out before we ever had kids.
i just..eh i dunno what to feel about it honestly

settles · 08-29-2008, 10:41 AM

well it sounds like it was for the better....

we are here if you need to talk...

lacy+chk · 08-29-2008, 10:42 AM

i'm so sorry...you seem like a strong person and i hope in time you can make sense of this and peace with the situation

~~BJo~~ · 08-29-2008, 10:54 AM

You take care of yourself right now.

soldierangel07 · 08-29-2008, 10:59 AM

I am sorry you got hurt in this whole deal. I know I am new, but if you need a listener or a shoulder feel free to PM me. I hate that you had to go through this.

~~GlitterCrotch~~ · 08-29-2008, 11:11 AM

I am so sorry hun.

leiawen · 08-31-2008, 10:38 AM

Oh no....I know you must be hurting deeply. I am saying a

for hope and healing in your life.

*Realized* · 08-31-2008, 10:42 AM

Purplekittie · 08-31-2008, 06:00 PM

i am so sorry sweetie...

jjschaef · 08-31-2008, 06:08 PM

I know how you feel and know a hug and some kind words don't help as much as you would like but they are yours anyway. Hang in their and continue to hope it was for the best.

08-29-2008, 10:34 AM	#1 (permalink)
Astra im a magic ninja!! Join Date: May 2007 Location: Dallas NC Posts: 1,307 Blog Entries: 11 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 45%	finally over so my marriage is finally over. apart of me really doesnt care.i just think its ***ty he went on so long lying to me when he felt another way. he decided to wait 2 weeks until i was supposed to go back to ft.polk to be with him.to tell me that "ive been feeling for months now that its not gunna work so im giving you your freedom" out of NOWHERE.i had been having concerns with myself and tried to talk to him about it and he just dumps that on me. i mean we have had problems with our marriage since day one.which is sad* i tried to make things work.our finaces are crap cause he just wont stop spending.and everytime i tried to help settle those too appearently i was just being a *****.because id get onto him for spending it on stuff we dont need nor have the money for. it felt like a one sided battle to make things work ._. plus he was controlling so its probably a good thing i got out before we ever had kids. i just..eh i dunno what to feel about it honestly __________________ http://astrafae.blogspot.com/ "People Should not be afraid of their governments.Governments should be afraid of their people"-"V for Vendetta"

08-29-2008, 10:41 AM	#2 (permalink)
settles MilitarySOS Jewel Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Savannah, GA Posts: 13,904 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 6% Longevity: 36%	well it sounds like it was for the better.... we are here if you need to talk... __________________ JOIN PROPOSITION SOS!!!!!!!!!! DO NOT BUY OR RENEW YOUR JEWEL MEMBERSHIP! STOP QPRINCESS FROM STEALING OUR MONEY AND OUR BOARD DO NOT LOG IN OR POST JAN 4TH!!!!!!!!!!!!

08-29-2008, 10:42 AM	#3 (permalink)
lacy+chk Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Wisconsin :) We're Home! Posts: 8,298 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 12% Longevity: 43%	i'm so sorry...you seem like a strong person and i hope in time you can make sense of this and peace with the situation __________________

08-29-2008, 10:59 AM	#5 (permalink)
soldierangel07 You are the best baby-DH Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 1,705 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 25%	I am sorry you got hurt in this whole deal. I know I am new, but if you need a listener or a shoulder feel free to PM me. I hate that you had to go through this. __________________

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Purplekittie AheeOo, Killer Tofu! Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 12,695 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 70%	i am so sorry sweetie... __________________ You don't choose your family...they are God's gift to you

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08-29-2008, 10:54 AM	#4 (permalink)
~~BJo~~ Banned Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Your mom Posts: 25,358 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 43%	You take care of yourself right now.

08-29-2008, 11:11 AM	#6 (permalink)
~~GlitterCrotch~~ Banned Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 18,869 Classifieds: (2) Activity: 0% Longevity: 47%	I am so sorry hun.

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leiawen Account Closed Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 3,515 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 41%	Oh no....I know you must be hurting deeply. I am saying a for hope and healing in your life.

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08-31-2008, 06:08 PM	#10 (permalink)
jjschaef Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: South Dakota Posts: 459 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 33%	I know how you feel and know a hug and some kind words don't help as much as you would like but they are yours anyway. Hang in their and continue to hope it was for the best.