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  1. Not afraid to be lonely, but I still wanna learn about love.
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    He e-mailed me this morning to let me know that he filed for divorce yesterday. I didn't get sad, I didn't cry.....I just thought "okay". I haven't cried since Tuesday.

    He still won't give me the unlock code to his phone, so I'm sure whatever is in there would/could really get him. But I already know who he really is....so I could care less, it would probably just give me a laugh.

    I'm trying to learn what to do with the happy memories. Last night, I was watching a movie with a friend (she's being like my 2nd mom - checks on me daily) at her house, and a character in the movie was twirling his daughter around dancing. Used to, when we'd be in Wal-Mart or a parking lot or anywhere, DH would grab me by the hand and twirl me around. I told him I hated it, but secretly I didn't (and I think he knew that), haha. I nearly had a panic attack though, because I just didn't know what to do with a good memory. I know it's going to be the happy memories that hurt the most....and eventually even the pain of them will subside.
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    Sweetie, you are soo much better off without him and I truely admire your strength.


  3. Damn it feels good to be a gangsta
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    oh sweetie...

    I'm sorry you have to deal with this. I know that those good memories are sometimes worse then the bad ones. But hang in there. You deserve better. Stay strong. We're all here for you!

  4. hurry up and wait....
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    I'm surprised you didn't file first, is your lawyer advising you about contact between you two?

    Is there any way to get the lock code unlocked? I know you said that they told you that you could take the phone to some other town and get it done right? It might be worth the drive to nail him in the divorce if you plan on being agressive about the divorce.
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    Oh Kels...I really have no idea what to say. Maybe there is a reason god doesn't want you to see what is in his phone...better off not knowing.

    I am so proud of how strong you are being under all of these circumstances. I hope you get the outcome you desire and can move on and find that someone down the road...

    You are in my thoughts and prayers.
    ~Beth
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    i am so sorry sweetheart...........if there is anything i can do please ask.
  8. A Beautiful Mistake
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    I have an idea about his phone........ take the smart card out of it...... and put it in yours.......then you can see whats on it
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    All you can do with the happy memories is be glad that you have them.

    Please throw the phone away. And if it has a chip roll over it with your car. Being vindictive and bitter will only stall you moving on. You said you were done with him so be done.
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    I'm sorry sweetie.
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