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    Exclamation UPDATE "ITS OVER"

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    UPDATE:
    I arrived in Houston at about 1:30 this afternoon and I feel so empty. It helps to have my family and friends here with me offering support but more than anything I just want to be back with DH. We talked about his drinking problem and he said he was going to get help and he confided in me that he is so unhappy being in the Army. I don't know how to help him because I thought I was helping him out by being by his side and talking to him daily, I guess not. Everything just happened so quickly, lastnite he walked out on me and I didn't know who to turn to or what to do so I just knew it was time to go back to my hometown. I want to be back in VA to be close to him and be his wife but its not healthy for me and I want him to respect me more. Maybe this distance will help us realize that we need eachother and things will work out in the end. Thanks for all of your support and being so understanding and caring. I need to know that things will be okay and that there is a chance that DH & I can work this out.


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    I hope you can both work through this. Could counseling be a viable option for you both (individually and as a couple)?
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    I'm so sorry hun. Maybe the seperation will help and you guys won't divorce. I'm glad you are back home where you can get the support you need right now. I pray things work out for the best and the way you want. Good Luck and Best Wishes hun.
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    I hope that he gets the help that he needs and that you guys are able to work on your relationship.
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    You're in my thoughts and prayers!!
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    i hope everything works out.


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    HUGS!!! Have you tried counseling?!? I'm so sorry things aren't working out right now. You could've given me a call!!! I thought I gave you my number.
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