I'm confused..

[sailors_lady]

So yesterday I was at work and my co-worker sends me a link and I checked it out and it was a dating site with a picture of my boyfriend (also with 2 of his friends) of 3yrs and 2months picture on it!!!! Stating that he's single and looking for a relationship or just intimacy with woman!!! I started crying and I finally got my act together to ask him about it.. First off I asked him if he has ever heard of the site and he said no, And then I said sure and he said yeah, why? And I told him what my co-worker came across and thought she'd be a good friend and send it to me. And he said we'll I still dont know what your talking about and he kept denying it.. All I know is that I saw his picture saying he wanted intimacy with other girls. He asked if I believed him and I said my gut feeling says not to believe you.. And he flipped out saying that it must of been one of his damn roomies because the other day he caught his friend watching porn on his computer and he also said the night before he got a text message from a yahoo id, saying that a girl wanted to get to know him better... He said that he was going to get to the buttom of it. and he went to muster and then texted me that his friend had confessed that he made it and was sorry but he said that his friend doesnt remember the password so he cant go on it anymore. He said that he was done with it but I still honestly think it was Jose.. It had his sign (Scopio) which means they would of known his birthday and they put he was from Hollister (where we live) and also put Jose's email address! He keeps saying it wasnt him. And if I dont believe him that he wants to end our relationship for me not trusting him. i dont know girls.. I need advice! What would you do?

[RunAwayLove]

has he ever given you a reason not to trust him before? guys do stupid stuff like that all the time to their buddies i dunno its a judgement call i know lots of my friends emails bdays and where they live so it would be pretty easy if i wanted to do it kwim?

[lemc81]

I think you're going to have to look at his past behavior and possible warning signs to figure out what's going on. Guys do that kinda stuff to there friends but some guys aren't faithful too. Why does your gut say that he's lying?

Sorry girl.

[kal916]

I had the same thing happen also! His roomate set up an account on plenty of fish and he never knew about it until I sent him the link! Go with your heart! PM me if you want more details.

[mrskmw]

Dunno...it could really go either way. It *could* be just his friends being stupid, pulling a prank or it could just be that he's one of those guys. If you sit back and take a good long hard look at his actions in the past, can you see any warning signs that you may have missed? Either way, good luck!!

[michellelac]

I agree with the other ladies. Look at his past and think if he would really do this.

[sailors_lady]

he's only lied to me once.. it was back in Aug. he denied staying at a party where there was drunk girls... besides that he no. he hates whenever guys hug me. and i've always seen him push girls off and have been told my girl friends of mine that they have seen him do so.. also but jr year some guy got my yahoo id and started sending me gross ims all the time and Jose got all sad, cause he thought I was replying and i didnt tell him about it till way later.. he said intrenet relationships are sick

[*MarineBug*]

When ever it comes to these things its so easy for them just to say " oh it was my room mate" honestly I have a hard time ever beleiving that. Of course if he goes to his buddy he can just have him lie about it any ways. I would follow your gut. Maybe tell him you need a break to think about it. And then take the time to think about it.

[sailors_lady]

and just my luck.. his roomie is grad today

[sailors_lady]

jose also got a werid text message from someone monday night... KACHENBACH89/ Hey, i got your number from a friend of mine, but I bet you cant guess who I am! My username is KACHENBACHEN89 if you.. What the hell?