I wish he would just let me let go. I finally built up the courage to end things only to have him beg for me to change my mind. I don't understand. Any other time he doesn't want this to work, but because I finally was ready to end things he wants one more chance. I can't take getting my heart stepped on anymore. It hurts to much. He said if we end things we can't even be friends because to him its either all or nothing. I don't know what I want anymore. Part of me says stay, make it work, and the other part of me says get the hell out of here... I don't even know where we stand right now.
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03-23-2008 08:06 PMLet me let go..
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03-23-2008 08:08 PMAww, Shannon I'm so sorry!
It sounds like you may need some time to figure out what YOU really want. That's what matters.
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03-23-2008 08:09 PMI'm so sorry to hear you're going through this...I'm in a somewhat similar situation with my ex as well.
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03-23-2008 08:09 PMI'm so sorry this is happening to you
. What was the deciding factor for you to end it? I know you guys have been together for a long time. Has the discussion of marriage been brought up?
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03-23-2008 08:15 PMWe use to talk about marriage all the time. But we've both changed. He is sooo hateful. A lot my reasoning has to do with his general attitude towards ours relationship. I am not going to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't value what he has and would rather tell me what a crappy person I am... I mean I can't tell you how many times inthe last few weeks after a fight he says something along the lines of " Well it doesn't matter, its not like we're gonna last anyway.." I just can't be the only one trying to make it work ya know.
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03-23-2008 08:27 PMOH Shannon
...I am sorry. It kinda sounds like he doesn't have a positive outlook on the relationship at all. 
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03-23-2008 08:29 PMim really sorry hun..just do what you feel is right in your heart...it will lead you in the right direction...I promise...If you need anything let me know
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03-23-2008 10:16 PM
It sounds to me like leaving him was a good decision.
he said that it is an "All or Nothing" deal for him.
well he sure as hell wasnt giving his all so that must mean he actually wants nothing.
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