The Price of Intelligence - Life After Love

fridaynightgirl · 02-28-2008, 02:40 PM

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He's married.

He's been home two weeks. He's on terminal leave.

He lied to me. I cannot believe it. I have completely shut down.

Bury myself in work is all I know to do. Try and forget about him because if I don't, I'll get in the car and do something rash like find little ol' Greenwood and meet the family. Which would accomplish nothing. It wouldn't even make me feel any better.

I've emailed him, asking for an explanation but I'm not expecting a response. He knows he's been caught.

I've looked back and there really wasn't any way for me to know there was a problem. He trusted that I would sit and wait like a good little girl. He didn't count on my using my resources. It was only once I started digging that I discovered all the inconsistencies in his story; things I had no way of knowing b/c I was so ignorant to the military.

What a mess.

I love you all and you are all my friends. I intend to stay around to love on all of you - if you'll have me.

rosebud* · 02-28-2008, 02:42 PM

OMG sweetie.

WTF is going on with men lately. I'm sooo sorry he is such an ass!!! of course you can stay here we

you. Uggh i feel sick for you.

~~lovemachine~~ · 02-28-2008, 02:43 PM

OH MY GOSH!! My jaw just dropped when I read this...let me get this straight..you have been waiting for him for over a year...and WHAT...he is married and HOME!!! What they heck? How long has he been married? I am so confused!!! I can't even imagine what you are going through right now!! I am so sorry!! if you need to talk or vent or anything feel free to PM me!!

Stray strong sweetie!

Lilbear911 · 02-28-2008, 02:44 PM

Oh gosh!! I'm sorry to hear that you were decieved!!! I don't think anyone would want you to leave, especially since you need the support right now!!! So, if its any consulation...I'LL HAVE YOU!

Brightstar · 02-28-2008, 02:45 PM

I am so sorry!! I dont know really have any advices to give you

leiawen · 02-28-2008, 02:47 PM

UGH. What a lowdown thing for a man to do--and not what you deserve at all.

I am so sorry.

Ellen · 02-28-2008, 02:51 PM

Write a letter to his Wife! Send it, don't send it. Your choice. Get it off your chest. What a horrible thing he has done to you.

jlbecker · 02-28-2008, 02:56 PM

oh my goodness. that's terrible!!

i'm sorry for what you're going through. stay strong.

OMG it's Andrea! · 02-28-2008, 03:30 PM

oh sweetie i'm so sorry

~~Kaiden'sMomma~~ · 02-28-2008, 03:31 PM

Wow.

02-28-2008, 02:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
fridaynightgirl Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Temple, Texas Posts: 2,146 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 49%	The Price of Intelligence -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- He's married. He's been home two weeks. He's on terminal leave. He lied to me. I cannot believe it. I have completely shut down. Bury myself in work is all I know to do. Try and forget about him because if I don't, I'll get in the car and do something rash like find little ol' Greenwood and meet the family. Which would accomplish nothing. It wouldn't even make me feel any better. I've emailed him, asking for an explanation but I'm not expecting a response. He knows he's been caught. I've looked back and there really wasn't any way for me to know there was a problem. He trusted that I would sit and wait like a good little girl. He didn't count on my using my resources. It was only once I started digging that I discovered all the inconsistencies in his story; things I had no way of knowing b/c I was so ignorant to the military. What a mess. I love you all and you are all my friends. I intend to stay around to love on all of you - if you'll have me. __________________

02-28-2008, 02:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
rosebud* rosebud*<3 Brittany Jo && <3 thekels9 Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: [wherever his heart is] Posts: 32,651 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 50% Longevity: 67%	OMG sweetie. WTF is going on with men lately. I'm sooo sorry he is such an ass!!! of course you can stay here we you. Uggh i feel sick for you. __________________

02-28-2008, 02:44 PM	#4 (permalink)
Lilbear911 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 1,838 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 10% Longevity: 31%	Oh gosh!! I'm sorry to hear that you were decieved!!! I don't think anyone would want you to leave, especially since you need the support right now!!! So, if its any consulation...I'LL HAVE YOU! __________________ LOVIN' MY LIFE AS A MOM AND A WIFE!

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leiawen Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Eglin AFB Posts: 3,373 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 42% Longevity: 38%	UGH. What a lowdown thing for a man to do--and not what you deserve at all. I am so sorry. __________________

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Ellen Loving Life! Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 21,995 Blog Entries: 4 Classifieds: (2) Activity: 6% Longevity: 64%	Write a letter to his Wife! Send it, don't send it. Your choice. Get it off your chest. What a horrible thing he has done to you. __________________ My Guys!!

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02-28-2008, 02:43 PM	#3 (permalink)
~~lovemachine~~ Too many wifeys...too little time Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 17,793 Blog Entries: 14 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 0% Longevity: 32%	OH MY GOSH!! My jaw just dropped when I read this...let me get this straight..you have been waiting for him for over a year...and WHAT...he is married and HOME!!! What they heck? How long has he been married? I am so confused!!! I can't even imagine what you are going through right now!! I am so sorry!! if you need to talk or vent or anything feel free to PM me!! Stray strong sweetie!

02-28-2008, 02:45 PM	#5 (permalink)
Brightstar Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 2,733 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 7% Longevity: 31%	I am so sorry!! I dont know really have any advices to give you

02-28-2008, 02:56 PM	#8 (permalink)
jlbecker Damn, it feels good to be a gangsta Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 14,412 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 15% Longevity: 55%	oh my goodness. that's terrible!! i'm sorry for what you're going through. stay strong. __________________ ~ jamie

02-28-2008, 03:30 PM	#9 (permalink)
OMG it's Andrea! who will drive my soul? Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: norcal Posts: 14,232 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 7% Longevity: 52%	oh sweetie i'm so sorry __________________

02-28-2008, 03:31 PM	#10 (permalink)
~~Kaiden'sMomma~~ Banned Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 15,011 Blog Entries: 4 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 48%	Wow.