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~*~Katie~*~ · 02-18-2008, 11:34 AM

I can't really go into details cause I am at school and I don't wanna look like a fool bawling my eyes out at the computer, but Greg and I are done. I dont really know why I was blind sided by the whole thing. Its been two weeks and I feel like my world is coming to an end. He told me before we hung up that he loves me and can see himself marrying me he just doesn't wanna be with me. I wanna curl up in a ball and die right now. So please pray for me...

cheerkelly · 02-18-2008, 11:37 AM

I'm so sorry! He can see himself marrying you, but doesn't want to be with you? I'm so confused. Then again, just about everything having to do with men confuses me.

I wish I could say something to make you feel better. I sure hope it all works out! I'm sending out a big hug your way!

~*~Katie~*~ · 02-18-2008, 11:39 AM

Originally Posted by cheerkelly

I'm so sorry! He can see himself marrying you, but doesn't want to be with you? I'm so confused. Then again, just about everything having to do with men confuses me.

I wish I could say something to make you feel better. I sure hope it all works out! I'm sending out a big hug your way!

Thanks I need all the hugs i can get. He says that He doesnt want a girlfriend right now in his life. I know for a fact that there is no one else. I think he is scared to get too close to someone cause he doesn't wanna get married. Hes 26. I waitied for his ass when he was in Iraq. What more does he want from me

WordensWife819 · 02-18-2008, 11:39 AM

Yeah, he can see himself marrying you but doesn't wanna be with you.... confuzled one over here! But hang in there and I hope that things work out the best for you!!!

~*~Katie~*~ · 02-18-2008, 11:41 AM

Originally Posted by WordensWife819

Yeah, he can see himself marrying you but doesn't wanna be with you.... confuzled one over here! But hang in there and I hope that things work out the best for you!!!

Thanks. I mean I have faith that either way with or without him God will lead me to the right man. I am just tired of giving my heart to a man and having it broken.

Tara S. · 02-18-2008, 11:41 AM

wow, i am so sorry...kind of came out of nowhere didnt it?

letgo0527 · 02-18-2008, 11:42 AM

...guys confuse me.....

SnowCrystal · 02-18-2008, 11:43 AM

Oh girl... I'm so sorry!

Cara · 02-18-2008, 11:43 AM

I am so sorry! I am confused by what he says too but I hope you can be at peace with the decision eventually. Hopefully he will come to his senses

Philsgurl · 02-18-2008, 11:43 AM

I'm sorry you are going through this!! He will regreat it soon, your a great woman!

02-18-2008, 11:34 AM	#1 (permalink)
~~Katie~~ Doin' It All On My Own... Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: New Bern, North Carolina Posts: 10,792 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 19% Longevity: 45%	Well Add Me To The List I can't really go into details cause I am at school and I don't wanna look like a fool bawling my eyes out at the computer, but Greg and I are done. I dont really know why I was blind sided by the whole thing. Its been two weeks and I feel like my world is coming to an end. He told me before we hung up that he loves me and can see himself marrying me he just doesn't wanna be with me. I wanna curl up in a ball and die right now. So please pray for me... __________________

02-18-2008, 11:37 AM	#2 (permalink)
cheerkelly Senior Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Corpus Christi, TX Posts: 2,722 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 12% Longevity: 42%	I'm so sorry! He can see himself marrying you, but doesn't want to be with you? I'm so confused. Then again, just about everything having to do with men confuses me. I wish I could say something to make you feel better. I sure hope it all works out! I'm sending out a big hug your way! __________________

02-18-2008, 11:39 AM	#4 (permalink)
WordensWife819 Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Spring Valley, CA Posts: 654 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 0% Longevity: 47%	Yeah, he can see himself marrying you but doesn't wanna be with you.... confuzled one over here! But hang in there and I hope that things work out the best for you!!! __________________

02-18-2008, 11:41 AM	#6 (permalink)
Tara S. tara and nick, a forever kind of love Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Michigan, boyfriend in iraq now Posts: 1,080 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 35%	wow, i am so sorry...kind of came out of nowhere didnt it? __________________ Nick: i cant wait til i see the most beautiful thing in this world.......your smile http://tarastarbuck.blogspot.com/ http://www.myspace.com/pennylane269 You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.... You must do the thing which you think you cannot do." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

02-18-2008, 11:42 AM	#7 (permalink)
letgo0527 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Me-Bakersfield, CA, Him- Kosovo Posts: 3,125 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 35% Longevity: 30%	...guys confuse me..... __________________

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02-18-2008, 11:43 AM	#8 (permalink)
SnowCrystal is blissfully happy... Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: "In the land of the tumbling tumbleweed..." Posts: 15,496 Classifieds: (2) Activity: 87% Longevity: 41%	Oh girl... I'm so sorry! __________________ Emotion makes the world go round, but common sense keeps it from going too fast.

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Cara MilitarySOS Jewel Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 934 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 19% Longevity: 30%	I am so sorry! I am confused by what he says too but I hope you can be at peace with the decision eventually. Hopefully he will come to his senses __________________ Life is a tragedy for those who feel, and a comedy for those who think. La Bruyere

02-18-2008, 11:43 AM	#10 (permalink)
Philsgurl Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 2,666 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 55%	I'm sorry you are going through this!! He will regreat it soon, your a great woman!