things were great and now it seems its over - Life After Love

Cheeky Monkey · 01-18-2008, 11:30 PM

our relationship seemed so strong and he loves me so much i know he does, but something has changed. wile he was with me on his leave things were wonderful, he was so sweet he wrote me i love you in our ice cream one night and then when he went to jax to spend time with his brother(who has his kids right now) everything changed he wont answer my calls and today i got a text saying he's coming to pick up his things, i know we have a hard road to face, but he promised we'd work through them. now all i can think is that its over and my soul is screaming in pain. he is my life the only man that i've ever loved... i just dont know what to do i have to see him tommorow and i dont know what i should say, do , or how i should act. help please, i feel so broken.

*MarineBug* · 01-18-2008, 11:52 PM

)-8 I think he needs to give you an explenation but thats all you should ask for when you do see him.
If he wants to go you should let him. I dont beleive in fighting for something when only one person wants it kwim?

AnAopps · 01-18-2008, 11:53 PM

Stay strong, and give him a chance to talk to you. If he is everything you say he is then there has to be reason for his actions.

StarCloud · 01-18-2008, 11:57 PM

IMO, I would wait to see where this finally leads.
It could be just a break that he needs right now, or it could be some dumb reason, for which you can change his mind.

Dont jump to conclusions until you know the whole story, and the real reasons behind his actions.

Good Luck.

Godders_Girl80 · 01-19-2008, 12:46 AM

I'm sprry hun. I hope he snaps out of whatever he's feeling soon

OMG it's Andrea! · 01-19-2008, 12:48 AM

i would ask for an explanation and see what he says.

tinsygrl · 01-19-2008, 12:51 AM

I hope it gets better!

Cheeky Monkey · 01-19-2008, 12:40 PM

i saw him this morning he and his brother came to get his things, we didnt get a chance to talk about anything seriously, but i gave him a letter to read on the plane so he would have time to think about how i have been feeling for a while it's a twelve hour flight so that should give him plenty of time to think.

CristinaFaye · 01-19-2008, 12:53 PM

Don't overreact or over analyze things. Just let him "come to" and tell you what's going on.

I wish you lots of luck and I really do hope everything works out. Hugs to you!

girl20racer · 01-19-2008, 12:55 PM

Originally Posted by Mrs.Ordinance

)-8 I think he needs to give you an explenation but thats all you should ask for when you do see him.
If he wants to go you should let him. I dont beleive in fighting for something when only one person wants it kwim?

I agree.

01-18-2008, 11:30 PM	#1 (permalink)
Cheeky Monkey One minute at a time. Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Orlando, Fl Posts: 723 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 38%	things were great and now it seems its over our relationship seemed so strong and he loves me so much i know he does, but something has changed. wile he was with me on his leave things were wonderful, he was so sweet he wrote me i love you in our ice cream one night and then when he went to jax to spend time with his brother(who has his kids right now) everything changed he wont answer my calls and today i got a text saying he's coming to pick up his things, i know we have a hard road to face, but he promised we'd work through them. now all i can think is that its over and my soul is screaming in pain. he is my life the only man that i've ever loved... i just dont know what to do i have to see him tommorow and i dont know what i should say, do , or how i should act. help please, i feel so broken. __________________

01-18-2008, 11:52 PM	#2 (permalink)
MarineBug KYLEY Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Me:SoCal DH:Afghanistan Stationed:Camp Pendleton Posts: 16,107 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (12) Activity: 48% Longevity: 34%	)-8 I think he needs to give you an explenation but thats all you should ask for when you do see him. If he wants to go you should let him. I dont beleive in fighting for something when only one person wants it kwim? __________________ Welcome Home

01-18-2008, 11:53 PM	#3 (permalink)
AnAopps I talk alot, it just never comes out of my mouth Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: MD Posts: 3,477 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 37%	Stay strong, and give him a chance to talk to you. If he is everything you say he is then there has to be reason for his actions. __________________

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Godders_Girl80 I love my 13B SPC Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Ft. Drum, NY Posts: 4,918 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 38%	I'm sprry hun. I hope he snaps out of whatever he's feeling soon __________________ Beauty Tips for Black Women

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OMG it's Andrea! who will drive my soul? Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: norcal Posts: 14,232 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 7% Longevity: 52%	i would ask for an explanation and see what he says. __________________

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01-18-2008, 11:57 PM	#4 (permalink)
StarCloud When I Climax, I Scream Hooah! Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Savannah, Ga Posts: 489 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 34%	IMO, I would wait to see where this finally leads. It could be just a break that he needs right now, or it could be some dumb reason, for which you can change his mind. Dont jump to conclusions until you know the whole story, and the real reasons behind his actions. Good Luck.

01-19-2008, 12:51 AM	#7 (permalink)
tinsygrl Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 3,501 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 47% Longevity: 40%	I hope it gets better!

01-19-2008, 12:40 PM	#8 (permalink)
Cheeky Monkey One minute at a time. Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Orlando, Fl Posts: 723 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 38%	i saw him this morning he and his brother came to get his things, we didnt get a chance to talk about anything seriously, but i gave him a letter to read on the plane so he would have time to think about how i have been feeling for a while it's a twelve hour flight so that should give him plenty of time to think. __________________

01-19-2008, 12:53 PM	#9 (permalink)
CristinaFaye Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Fayetteville, NC/Fort Bragg Posts: 3,193 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 37% Longevity: 34%	Don't overreact or over analyze things. Just let him "come to" and tell you what's going on. I wish you lots of luck and I really do hope everything works out. Hugs to you!