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    i ended things today. i feel awful im miserable, but i just need to be by myself and figure out what i want for once. i must be the scum of the earth to break up with him when he's over there. but i just couldnt do it anymore. i tried. i care for him so much as a friend but i cant be the girlfriend right now. and he hates me. i guess he has a right to. but he said hes gonna cut me off forever. i dont want that. but i also think he is saying that to get me to change my mind and thats not right. im sad. i will keep praying for him everyday and hope some day he can accept my friendship
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    I hope things work out the way you want/need them to!!
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    I am sorry you are feeling this way. Big hugs for you.
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    I'm sorry. It' always hard to break up and even harder when you know he must be going through different shit...

    I haven't read your other posts. What happened? Is it personal, or something he caused?

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    Im sorry, im going through the same thing right now...its hard, but you have to do whats right for you
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    I think you did the right thing. I always say that you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. If you know in you're heart that you couldn't be the girlfriend anymore than I respect you for that. At least you were honest and told him. Hopefully one day he will understand that. Time will only tell.
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    I hope you are doing ok... just continue to be his friend if you can and you never know what will happen!
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    Quote Originally Posted by danielley View Post
    i ended things today. i feel awful im miserable, but i just need to be by myself and figure out what i want for once. i must be the scum of the earth to break up with him when he's over there. but i just couldnt do it anymore. i tried. i care for him so much as a friend but i cant be the girlfriend right now. and he hates me. i guess he has a right to. but he said hes gonna cut me off forever. i dont want that. but i also think he is saying that to get me to change my mind and thats not right. im sad. i will keep praying for him everyday and hope some day he can accept my friendship
    You aren't horrible! "Love thyself"

    And what he is saying now isn't the truth, it is his hurt and pain. Send him letters every once in awhile, and make sure he knows you aren't with anyone else.

    Good luck.

    The moment I heard my first love story
    I began searching for you, not knowing
    how foolish that was. True lovers don't meet
    somewhere out there, but are in each other all along.

    ~Jalaluíl Din Rumi, Quatrains 1246
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    I hope he comes around too. There was love and I hope there will be friendship too. Just give him time and keep being his friend. Good luck. Hugs to you!
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    im sorry but you have to do whats best for you maybe he will come around and accept your friendship.
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