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  1. i will NOT limbo in Idaho
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    DD is 16MO and

    "Dayee, please! Dayee!" breaks my heart!
    We have a daddy doll, and a recorded book, and pictures, but whew it just doesn't work some days. She wants to hear respond to her and see him.

    Poor babies without their daddies! I wish there was some way they could understand.
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    to you both It is hard when little ones are involved. At least we can understand it, them - not so much.
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    DS tried to respond to DH's voicemail's that he left for him and now when DH does call he doesn't want to talk to DH because he thinks that DH didn't want to talk to him from the voicemails.

    All you can do is reassure them of the love that is there just not physically. I always tell my DS that I loved him yesterday and I will love him today, tomorrow, and every day after, and that I will love him when he is here or when he is far away. Whether I tell him on the phone or whisper it in his ear at night. I will always love him.. and so does Daddy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Your_Anz View Post
    I always tell my DS that I loved him yesterday and I will love him today, tomorrow, and every day after, and that I will love him when he is here or when he is far away. Whether I tell him on the phone or whisper it in his ear at night. I will always love him.. and so does Daddy.
    I love this! <3 Thank you
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    Your post broke my heart a little, too.
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    This breaks my heart and makes me want to lock my DH in the closet so he cant leave.

    We have to little girls who are big daddy's girls and I know they are gonna do the same thing when he leave next month
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    poor things, both of you. It is so heart breaking.
    I fear the day dh has to deploy again, I dont think DD will understand
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    DD asks for him almost every day. It's really hard on the babies...the first 3 weeks after he left she refused to eat solid food and just had breastmilk...her sleep went to crap and she was very clingy. We're over half way there now...her sleep still isn't back to how it was and some days she does well, or a picture will satify her for a bit, or her daddy doll. But there are days that from the time she wakes up until she actually gets to talk to him she will refuse to nap and just ask for him at different times throughout the day.
    It makes the deployment even harder. I just wish she could really understand and express exactly what she's feeling.
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