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    No goodbye

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    My best friend deployed recently. I tried to see him before he left, but because he was busy and is stubborn as h*ll, I didn't get to see him. Or even talk to him. I've been feeling hurt ever since like it was something I did. But then I talked to his mom and he didn't see her before he left either.
    I've had a couple people tell me that maybe he couldn't bear to say goodbye to either of us. I'm not sure how I feel about that or if I believe it?
    It's been about 6 years since I've been through this (with someone else) so I don't really remember how it goes.
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    It goes that some people don't like saying good bye
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    you should probably talk to him about why he chose not to see you before he left.


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    Itís true some people are not good with goodbyes. Some people start to pull away before leaving thinking it may make it easier to do so. As for him maybe ask him in a kind way about it.

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