
Originally Posted by
Ilovemysailor16
How do you guys adapt back to normal life with your SO comes home from deployment? Are things really different? Do you feel like your SO's have changed? My husband will be coming back soon and to be honest we have spent almost the whole time arguing. Our arguments are over petty stuff and usually about how I'm not involved in anything.We have had conversations about him doing better and he has yet to make that happen. I can't say anything to him because then I'm complaining and I'm not allowed to complain because I have been living in my home state the whole deployment..and apparently that makes it so much easier on me. We don't talk as much as we did when he first left and when he pulls into port he MIGHT FaceTime me...or he might call me for 5 mins. Prior to me he hasn't ever had to answer to anyone and never really had a serious gf...he's been in the military since college and he has done what is best for his career and himself. Now I feel like since we have been apart for so long he is back in that single man life..where I'm not a priority. I find out more information from his friends than I do him. Or he tells me one thing and tells them another. I thought us going on a vacation after deployment would help but I don't think he's even excited about that. When we do talk all he talks about is a upcoming bachelor party with his friends. I just don't know if we have grown apart? Or if its just the stress of life getting to us.
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