At What Age?

[AdaraMarie]

I think it’s ridiculous to lie about an animal dying at any age lol. I’ve never understood why it’s less painful for your kids to think you gave their dog away? Also honestly I think that teaches kids to be flippant about animal care and see pets as disposable.

I agree. Its life, and you as a parent have a duty to teach them life lessons and help them through their struggles.

[SoulCupcake]

I've only ever explained what actually happened. Our beloved pet died. Nothing fanciful or whatever. We don't make up stories to make it easier to process. One of our cats died suddenly a year ago. The kids were home. They got to say goodbye and hold/see him before he was buried. Including our then-2.5 year old. We told her Mako died. She still remembers it and talks about it. But yeah, we're pretty honest about how we approach the topic.