do u stalk?? - Page 5 - General Support and Chat

KissTheRain · 11-03-2009, 04:36 PM

I put sometimes...I don't really call it stalking or even checking up on him. I trust him...just not other women...like his ex and a woman who was infatuated with him even after we were married and asked him out for drinks several times. But I've grown up and she stopped bugging him so I have no reason to go on his facebook or his seldom used myspace. I check his email only when he asks me to or if I've signed up for something for us using his email address and need to retrieve it.

Ellie · 11-03-2009, 04:37 PM

Originally Posted by AshleyReida

I put sometimes...I don't really call it stalking or even checking up on him. I trust him...just not other women...like his ex and a woman who was infatuated with him even after we were married and asked him out for drinks several times. But I've grown up and she stopped bugging him so I have no reason to go on his facebook or his seldom used myspace. I check his email only when he asks me to or if I've signed up for something for us using his email address and need to retrieve it.

I igned up for VS with DF's email,

LoveKiss · 11-03-2009, 04:38 PM

With the ex, yes I did. Turns out my intuition was right. He was up to something exceptionally shady. With J, it's never crossed my mind.

Nikolle · 11-03-2009, 04:39 PM

DH doesn't have a facebook or myspace anyway

Am · 11-03-2009, 04:39 PM

Originally Posted by AshleyReida

I put sometimes...I don't really call it stalking or even checking up on him. I trust him...just not other women...like his ex and a woman who was infatuated with him even after we were married and asked him out for drinks several times. But I've grown up and she stopped bugging him so I have no reason to go on his facebook or his seldom used myspace. I check his email only when he asks me to or if I've signed up for something for us using his email address and need to retrieve it.

I'm not picking on you, promise. I just don't understand that line AT ALL and it's used so much. To me, that says "I just my SO unless another woman pursues him. Then I'm not so sure."

Someone please explain it to me.

amy1117 · 11-03-2009, 04:39 PM

He doesn't have myspace or facebook, but even if he did I would never "stalk" him. I have never snooped in his e-mail or anything like that, it is just unnecessary and an invasion of his privacy (unless he specifically asks me to check if he received a certain e-mail or something, but then I ONLY check for that particular e-mail.)

*~Robyn~* · 11-03-2009, 04:41 PM

No, I'm a grown up and don't need to "stalk my man"

Ellie · 11-03-2009, 04:41 PM

Originally Posted by CarolinaHokie

I'm not picking on you, promise. I just don't understand that line AT ALL and it's used so much. To me, that says "I just my SO unless another woman pursues him. Then I'm not so sure."

Someone please explain it to me.

I think it's more of a "I trust my SO not to make a move on another women, but I don't trust women not to make a move on him", but if you trust your SO whether or not another woman makes a move on him shouldn't matter, KWIM?

*skittles* · 11-03-2009, 04:44 PM

Define 'stalk'...I said sometimes because I use the word in jest...I look at my husbands page, I look at my brothers pages, I look at my friends pages....sometimes a lot because everyone here deployed and there isn't much to do at work...and I like to know who my husbands friends are...they're good people and leave funny comments sometimes.

I don't have his password or actually snoop through his **** though. shrug.

SailorsGirl24 · 11-03-2009, 05:09 PM

Nope. Neither of us have a Facebook or Myspace. MAYBE later on down the road when we're married and have kids and want to share with friends and family. Other than that, neither of us have any need for it and really don't have time for it. My mom gave me her password to use when I want to look at family and stuff. My mom and family are more into it than I'll ever be.

I only check DB's email when he is away and asks me to. Other than that, he's a man and doesn't need to be monitored.

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11-03-2009, 04:36 PM	#41 (permalink)
KissTheRain MilitarySOS Jewel Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Ft. Lewis, WA/Lacey Posts: 1,214 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 49% Longevity: 38%	I put sometimes...I don't really call it stalking or even checking up on him. I trust him...just not other women...like his ex and a woman who was infatuated with him even after we were married and asked him out for drinks several times. But I've grown up and she stopped bugging him so I have no reason to go on his facebook or his seldom used myspace. I check his email only when he asks me to or if I've signed up for something for us using his email address and need to retrieve it. __________________

11-03-2009, 04:38 PM	#43 (permalink)
LoveKiss Dream as if you'll live forever; live as if you'll die today Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Maryland Posts: 8,945 Blog Entries: 11 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 69% Longevity: 28%	With the ex, yes I did. Turns out my intuition was right. He was up to something exceptionally shady. With J, it's never crossed my mind. __________________ MSOS wifey love makes the world go round.

11-03-2009, 04:39 PM	#44 (permalink)
Nikolle Damage Control Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: NC Posts: 2,218 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 11% Longevity: 11%	DH doesn't have a facebook or myspace anyway __________________ Embrace those who love you and whom you love, and rid yourself of those who will only bring you down!

11-03-2009, 04:39 PM	#46 (permalink)
amy1117 Counting down the days... Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Me: New York Fiance: Finally home! Posts: 2,840 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 58% Longevity: 19%	He doesn't have myspace or facebook, but even if he did I would never "stalk" him. I have never snooped in his e-mail or anything like that, it is just unnecessary and an invasion of his privacy (unless he specifically asks me to check if he received a certain e-mail or something, but then I ONLY check for that particular e-mail.) __________________

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11-03-2009, 04:41 PM	#47 (permalink)
~Robyn~ yes, I've given birth 6 times! Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: SoCal Posts: 9,210 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 35% Longevity: 21%	No, I'm a grown up and don't need to "stalk my man" __________________ Kimberly Lynn + = + = Results:

11-03-2009, 04:44 PM	#49 (permalink)
skittles MilitarySOS Jewel Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Savannah, GA Posts: 2,505 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 92% Longevity: 11%	Define 'stalk'...I said sometimes because I use the word in jest...I look at my husbands page, I look at my brothers pages, I look at my friends pages....sometimes a lot because everyone here deployed and there isn't much to do at work...and I like to know who my husbands friends are...they're good people and leave funny comments sometimes. I don't have his password or actually snoop through his **** though. shrug.

11-03-2009, 05:09 PM	#50 (permalink)
SailorsGirl24 Steph is my name :) Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Me: Los Angeles, Him: Deployed Posts: 561 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 68% Longevity: 4%	Nope. Neither of us have a Facebook or Myspace. MAYBE later on down the road when we're married and have kids and want to share with friends and family. Other than that, neither of us have any need for it and really don't have time for it. My mom gave me her password to use when I want to look at family and stuff. My mom and family are more into it than I'll ever be. I only check DB's email when he is away and asks me to. Other than that, he's a man and doesn't need to be monitored. __________________ DB: "I may be halfway around the world but my heart will always be with you."