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    Bang Head Stress Levels are beyond manageable!

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    Christmas has absolutely killed me!

    DH told me to wait until he got paid after Christmas to worry about the bills. I ended up spending way more then I thought on Christmas gifts and groceries and now have $89 in my account and $1200 in bills that are due like NOW! I just talked to DH and he's now mad at me for spending so much (which I NEVER do) ...and he has to pay the rent with this check too.


    excuse my language ....

    we are SO fucked!!

    I know we'll figure it out and get through it ..we always do. But I HATE paying things late and I HATE having NO money! ugh ugh ugh

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    AWW I know how that goes.
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    AWW I know how that goes.
    I about to lose it! ugh

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    I am sorry! Just deep breaths.
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    I know how that feels. Trust me.

    How is your credit score? Can you take out a small personal loan at a bank/credit union to pay the bills and rent this month? Do you have any family/friends who are able to loan you enough to at least make rent?
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    Idk how your finances look, obviously... But I was wanting to boost my credit score some while hopefully paying off a couple of my credit cards. I work at a credit union so I was able to really find out how to go about it before jumping into anything too hastily.

    I took a small loan out on my car (for collateral. It's been paid off ever since my dad gave it to me in 2005) so that I could build more credit besides just credit cards that way when I am ready to buy a house I'll have more on my credit report.

    The card I used the money for, I paid it off. It was really high in interest and I'm glad to have that out of the way now. I also am not stressing out as much. That was my highest bill every month besides rent.

    Just telling you this to give you some options to think about. Feel free to PM me.
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    Maybe your creditors will give you a break and extend the time period you have to pay - it doesn't.hurt to ask! Im sorry youre going through this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tojai View Post
    Maybe your creditors will give you a break and extend the time period you have to pay - it doesn't.hurt to ask! Im sorry youre going through this.
    It doesn't hurt to ask. Alot of companies will give you an extension. Call and see!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hottie. View Post
    I know how that feels. Trust me.

    How is your credit score? Can you take out a small personal loan at a bank/credit union to pay the bills and rent this month? Do you have any family/friends who are able to loan you enough to at least make rent?
    unfortunately my credit is tapped out. DH has horrible credit because his ex wife destroyed it out of spite. So everything we have is on my credit so now it's hard for me to get anything because there's so much on there.

    Quote Originally Posted by Tojai View Post
    Maybe your creditors will give you a break and extend the time period you have to pay - it doesn't.hurt to ask! Im sorry youre going through this.

    yeah I'm probably going to have to look into this. It just sucks because that means when I get paid in 2 weeks I'm going to be instantly broke again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkyLee View Post
    unfortunately my credit is tapped out. DH has horrible credit because his ex wife destroyed it out of spite. So everything we have is on my credit so now it's hard for me to get anything because there's so much on there.




    yeah I'm probably going to have to look into this. It just sucks because that means when I get paid in 2 weeks I'm going to be instantly broke again.


    Some places may defer it for a month. That will just give you time to save up to pay it net month. And then when you are back on your feet again, try making a couple double payments to get caught up.

    Try to not let the entire world rest on your shoulders. Take help, and look for help when you need it.
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