10-29-2007, 07:13 PM
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k...so...before dh and i were married he was living with his brother and paying rent...well before we married and the day after my kids got here, he skipped out. Well we've been doing okay since then-barely skimming by. We were supposed to get our BAH on the first but for some reason the paperwork was found unsigned on his commander's desk AFTER the due date so now it's still processing. We'll be recieving the normal pay but we have rent and some overdrafts to take care of. Our electricity is gonna be shut off on the 6th and my car has no gas (hence some of the overdrafts)..so we're screwed. We got an AER earlier this month to cover bills but since his brother left it still wasnt enough and now we're in trouble until we get our BAH and Lord knows when that will be. Does anyone know of any other resources available?? we tried selling stuff on craigslist but no one is buying. so we have no other thing we can do..any advice?
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10-29-2007, 08:45 PM
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You can go back to AER to see if you can get a loan for the full amount of rent, I know they will do that since the BAH error is on the part of the Army,they will either do a loan or grant. depending. Also have your dh go to his command and let them know what is happening. sometimes they forget that people need to pay rent and you all can't wait for them to decide to sign.
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10-29-2007, 09:14 PM
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well when it was found it was hand delivered and since it was past due date it's still processing...there's not much he can do right now..he leaves for iraq on wednesday...cant work because daycare requires money up front...have none-lol so cannot work till we do-isnt that stupid-you need daycare to work and earn money, yet you cant get daycare unless you have money...
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10-29-2007, 09:21 PM
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Borrow money from family, try to get another loan from AER, maybe not pay on some other bill in order to pay for your electricity bill.
Good Luck hun! 
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10-29-2007, 09:28 PM
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well we have rent then whatever money is deposited will cover the overdrafts...
 that leaves us with zero. cant not pay rent...
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