I REFUSE to have a hard day! :) - During Deployment

SnarphBlat · 11-05-2009, 10:54 AM

Okay, I am refusing it! I am not going to let any negative thoughts creep in and haunt me while I am at work. I am one day closer to his arms. He's doing ok and healthy. He misses me just as I miss him, and he's thinking of me too. He want's to be home just as badly as I want him home.

This goes for ALL of you ladies who's SO's are deployed. We're going to choose to have a good strong day, because we can. Someone across the world LOVES each of us and that in itself is a blessing that can not be taken from us.

So, as I stare at his pictures at work today, I am going to pray for him, his heart and that God will keep him safe. We can do this ladies so many have done it before us and some more than once. If they can do it, so can we.

Keep holding on and keep your head forward looking at what is coming up next. Deployments thankfully don't last forever and they WILL send our men home to us.

WHOO HOO! Lets kick this deplyoments butt!

armygf707 · 11-05-2009, 10:56 AM

It's like that Avril Lavigne song "Keep Holdin On"! woohoo! I'm with you girl. No tears today. We will kick this deployment right were it hurts.

HeatherNichole · 11-05-2009, 10:57 AM

Here is to a strong day for all the ladies!! Keep it up you can do this!

bubbleheadwife · 11-05-2009, 11:05 AM

Well said! Dont let this deployment take us....take it down!!

chelley · 11-05-2009, 11:23 AM

I hear ya!

cassadess · 11-05-2009, 11:31 AM

take that, deployment!

very wise words!

Kaylin · 11-05-2009, 11:34 AM

Thanks for this Hill! It's so easy to let myself have a bad day. I always remind myself that it's hard for him too to be away from him and he misses me too and it kills him when I'm sad and have a tough day.

Every day is one day closer to being in his arms again! I always remind myself of that!

Taylor · 11-05-2009, 11:54 AM

Awesome post!

Keep on keepin' on, ladies. We got this!

beachk · 11-05-2009, 12:57 PM

i agree, awesome post

this also made me teary haha

carmel11725 · 11-05-2009, 01:08 PM

Good for you

I like the saying, "make it a good day" instead of "have a good day". because sometimes thats just so true. YOU(general) have the choice to make it a good or bad day...so MAKE it good.

I very seldomly hear someone say that to me and everytime i hear it, i get the biggest smile on my face

11-05-2009, 10:54 AM	#1 (permalink)
SnarphBlat Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: NY Posts: 11,438 Blog Entries: 15 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 70% Longevity: 33%	I REFUSE to have a hard day! :) Okay, I am refusing it! I am not going to let any negative thoughts creep in and haunt me while I am at work. I am one day closer to his arms. He's doing ok and healthy. He misses me just as I miss him, and he's thinking of me too. He want's to be home just as badly as I want him home. This goes for ALL of you ladies who's SO's are deployed. We're going to choose to have a good strong day, because we can. Someone across the world LOVES each of us and that in itself is a blessing that can not be taken from us. So, as I stare at his pictures at work today, I am going to pray for him, his heart and that God will keep him safe. We can do this ladies so many have done it before us and some more than once. If they can do it, so can we. Keep holding on and keep your head forward looking at what is coming up next. Deployments thankfully don't last forever and they WILL send our men home to us. WHOO HOO! Lets kick this deplyoments butt! __________________ Praying my Marine back home.

11-05-2009, 10:56 AM	#2 (permalink)
armygf707 He's my Incredible Hulk Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: I'm in Atlanta, He's in Iraq Posts: 601 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 60% Longevity: 2%	It's like that Avril Lavigne song "Keep Holdin On"! woohoo! I'm with you girl. No tears today. We will kick this deployment right were it hurts. __________________ Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Chart

11-05-2009, 10:57 AM	#3 (permalink)
HeatherNichole Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Kansas Posts: 700 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 54% Longevity: 3%	Here is to a strong day for all the ladies!! Keep it up you can do this! __________________ I am a hot pot....be jealous

11-05-2009, 11:05 AM	#4 (permalink)
bubbleheadwife What a Difference a Day Makes... Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: San Diego, Ca Posts: 2,399 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 25% Longevity: 48%	Well said! Dont let this deployment take us....take it down!! __________________ *Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great. - Roger de Rabutin*

11-05-2009, 11:23 AM	#5 (permalink)
chelley Now trying to wait patiently... Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Kutztown, PA or Windsor, CT Posts: 305 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 26% Longevity: 5%	I hear ya! __________________ "I will see you again, a long time from now" -- Hello I'm in Delaware - City and Colour

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11-05-2009, 11:31 AM	#6 (permalink)
cassadess It's been lovely, but I have to scream now. Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Me: Washington State Him: Afghanistan Posts: 260 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 49% Longevity: 13%	take that, deployment! very wise words! __________________

11-05-2009, 11:34 AM	#7 (permalink)
Kaylin Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Southern California Posts: 9,690 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 88% Longevity: 19%	Thanks for this Hill! It's so easy to let myself have a bad day. I always remind myself that it's hard for him too to be away from him and he misses me too and it kills him when I'm sad and have a tough day. Every day is one day closer to being in his arms again! I always remind myself of that! __________________ I love my wifeys Melissa Paige Brittany Erin DeeJayy Meggie Willow Hillarie Chels Tori and RyRy

11-05-2009, 11:54 AM	#8 (permalink)
Taylor Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Me: Illinois/ Him: Afghanistan Posts: 1,409 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 77% Longevity: 7%	Awesome post! Keep on keepin' on, ladies. We got this! __________________

11-05-2009, 12:57 PM	#9 (permalink)
beachk i hate iraq Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: him: sandbox, me: virginia Posts: 971 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 75% Longevity: 8%	i agree, awesome post this also made me teary haha __________________ you gotta swim, don't let yourself sink, just find the horizon, i promise you it's not as far as you think... sept 09 deployed buddies

11-05-2009, 01:08 PM	#10 (permalink)
carmel11725 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: MCBH. Currently, Clearwater, Fl Posts: 7,026 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 80% Longevity: 39%	Good for you I like the saying, "make it a good day" instead of "have a good day". because sometimes thats just so true. YOU(general) have the choice to make it a good or bad day...so MAKE it good. I very seldomly hear someone say that to me and everytime i hear it, i get the biggest smile on my face