So tired of being disowned - During Deployment

babybear4life · 01-12-2009, 02:07 PM

Okay so my mom decided to disown me AGAIN! Why because I didnt want to get some used clothes and wanted to clean my apartment instead of her house because I am about to start my new job... So I finally stood up to her, told her to grow up and that I am done with the drama... she is trying to ruin my marriage... saying because and old fri8end wants to come see me i9 am "cheating" ha I cant even look at another man without thinking i am cheating... how could i possibly actually cheat? so I am going down to killeen tomorrow and she cant tell me not to! I am so OVER IT!

RakasansGirl · 01-12-2009, 02:10 PM

Im sorry your going through this hun, it sounds like a rough situation. Dont let her get you down.

His*PITA* · 01-12-2009, 02:11 PM

She sounds like a real peach... your allowed to see old friends, and even have guy friends... im sorry hun

Whitney. · 01-12-2009, 02:13 PM

eek i don't do well with controlling parents. i hope you two can work things out!

AimeeInTx · 01-12-2009, 02:32 PM

Sorry about your mom. Have a safe trip.

AirmanHallsGirl · 01-12-2009, 03:19 PM

Sorry to hear that. That's when you just need some time away from her if it's possible.

*MarineBug* · 01-12-2009, 03:25 PM

So your married and grown. There for she is not disowning you. I would cut that communication in a hurry till she gets the picture.

CarebearNJ · 01-12-2009, 05:27 PM

Your mom is a grown woman playing childish games. She will never get over it, but you can choose not to sink to her level. MAD PROPS to you for standing up to her!!

CAITstoppable · 01-12-2009, 05:59 PM

Keep your chin up.

littleladyC · 01-12-2009, 06:16 PM

good for you to stand up to her..parents cant control your live forever

01-12-2009, 02:07 PM	#1 (permalink)
babybear4life Missing my deployed Soldier! Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Houston Posts: 130 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 19%	So tired of being disowned Okay so my mom decided to disown me AGAIN! Why because I didnt want to get some used clothes and wanted to clean my apartment instead of her house because I am about to start my new job... So I finally stood up to her, told her to grow up and that I am done with the drama... she is trying to ruin my marriage... saying because and old fri8end wants to come see me i9 am "cheating" ha I cant even look at another man without thinking i am cheating... how could i possibly actually cheat? so I am going down to killeen tomorrow and she cant tell me not to! I am so OVER IT! __________________ His Baby Bear

01-12-2009, 02:10 PM	#2 (permalink)
RakasansGirl Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Me: Lake Geneva WI DB: Fort Campbell KY Posts: 1,664 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 36%	Im sorry your going through this hun, it sounds like a rough situation. Dont let her get you down. __________________ My Family

01-12-2009, 02:13 PM	#4 (permalink)
Whitney. Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: St. Augustine, FL Posts: 4,216 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 44% Longevity: 22%	eek i don't do well with controlling parents. i hope you two can work things out! __________________ blue jean baby

01-12-2009, 03:19 PM	#6 (permalink)
AirmanHallsGirl Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Me-Kokomo, Indiana Posts: 1,809 Blog Entries: 3 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 5% Longevity: 19%	Sorry to hear that. That's when you just need some time away from her if it's possible. __________________ Wifey to the Singles' Club!

01-12-2009, 05:27 PM	#8 (permalink)
CarebearNJ Invisible Ninja Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: NJ Posts: 919 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 31%	Your mom is a grown woman playing childish games. She will never get over it, but you can choose not to sink to her level. MAD PROPS to you for standing up to her!! __________________ 11 months and he's home!

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01-12-2009, 02:32 PM	#5 (permalink)
AimeeInTx Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Home for now... Posts: 460 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 13% Longevity: 19%	Sorry about your mom. Have a safe trip.

01-12-2009, 03:25 PM	#7 (permalink)
MarineBug nothing Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 16,233 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (12) Activity: 4% Longevity: 38%	So your married and grown. There for she is not disowning you. I would cut that communication in a hurry till she gets the picture.

01-12-2009, 05:59 PM	#9 (permalink)
CAITstoppable CAITstoppable Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: ME=Olympia, WA//HIM= Camp Lejeune Posts: 1,693 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 20%	Keep your chin up. __________________ http://twitter.com/CLAiken

01-12-2009, 06:16 PM	#10 (permalink)
littleladyC Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Lakewood/ Ft.Lewis,WA--him : Iraq Posts: 132 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 22%	good for you to stand up to her..parents cant control your live forever __________________