Hey Folks... I'm looking for advice from those who have been there.
I posted earlier in Jan. about not hearing from by DB in 3 months...although he sent Christmas gifts to me and family... and at the time, I was only made aware that he contacted his brother (on Thanksgiving). Well, his mother pulled me aside the other day and wanted to speak to me.
She said she was "concerned" and wanted to know how long it has been since I spoke to my DB, because she has heard from him 3xs since Thanksgiving, and is concerned because she said she "thinks I should be the one receiving most of the communication from him; no one else.
I'm confused and sad... the last time he communicated with me. everything was fine and it appeared that we were still together... He sent me a message - and to be honest, my response was an emotional one... I was frustrated with his lack of communication and the fact that he didn't try harder to communicate with me... (thinking back, at the time, I was the only one really getting communication from him)......But now this... complete radio silence for 3 going on 4 months.
I have sent letters, emails (to his personal and through a friend via a mil account).... and.... I have gotten nothing.
Now, his mother is concerned for me... she is extremely genuine and a kind woman.... so this makes me think I am being played
All of his friends and family know about me; as he made it his business to introduce me to everyone before he shipped out...and told me cultivate a relationship with them while he was gone.
What should I do?... Let it go or keep staying faithful?... I need help and advice.... This is my first time dating anyone in the Military, and this is his first deployment. He is an officer so i don't know if that counts for anything; but I know he has used a phone to contact his mother and brother.
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