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    Help He's distant.. am I losing him?

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    I get that hes busy alot because hes obviously deployed.. even if it is just work. but idk he seems like our relationship is just whatever.. he's not showing he cares that much.. I feel like im more excited to talk to him n hes just like its whatever.. Am I overreacting?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elan View Post
    I get that hes busy alot because hes obviously deployed.. even if it is just work. but idk he seems like our relationship is just whatever.. he's not showing he cares that much.. I feel like im more excited to talk to him n hes just like its whatever.. Am I overreacting?
    Can you give some examples of what's making you feel this way?
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    Have you talked to him about this? Honestly, he is the only one who can give you the answer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elan View Post
    I get that hes busy alot because hes obviously deployed.. even if it is just work. but idk he seems like our relationship is just whatever.. he's not showing he cares that much.. I feel like im more excited to talk to him n hes just like its whatever.. Am I overreacting?
    First, to the forum. Pop over to the Newbies section and introduce yourself!

    Second, have you asked him what's going on? That's your first step. Deployed or not, he should still treat you fairly and kindly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Crystal View Post
    Have you talked to him about this? Honestly, he is the only one who can give you the answer.


    I would talk to him about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Crystal View Post
    Have you talked to him about this? Honestly, he is the only one who can give you the answer.
    Quote Originally Posted by KittenMittens View Post
    First, to the forum. Pop over to the Newbies section and introduce yourself!

    Second, have you asked him what's going on? That's your first step. Deployed or not, he should still treat you fairly and kindly.
    Quote Originally Posted by villanelle View Post
    Ask him what you asked us, in a calm, non-accusatory way.
    Try to talk to him to get to the bottom of it and work it out

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