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    Hi girls... what I said in another post, this is my first deployment. My boy told me a few days ago that he was not able to sleep well, he was taking 2 pills to help sleep... he also told me he was sick to his stomach.Now he is very distant with me.... today told me that he is having a week hard and i needs time . That phrase ... I need time really scared me .... what should I do?
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    If he needs time, there isn't much you can do except give him the time he is asking for? I would ask him why he needs time? And try to get a time frame for how long his needing space is going to last (if that's possible) But if he really want space I wouldn't argue with someone who has started to withdraw and proclaim their need for space. I'd let them take their space and see how it goes.
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    If he asked for time give him time. Adjusting to a deployment can be hard for both you and him. So give him what he asked and if it's meant to be it'll work out.
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    wanted to offer up some too
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs.Kaepernick View Post
    wanted to offer up some too

    Thank you i really need that... I have a lot of fear that he does't want to be with me ... is the love of my life

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