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    Sad In a rough place :-(

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    My husband just left on his deployment a couple days ago, and I am just completely heart broken. This is our first deployment being married, and me being away from home living alone. These past couple of days have been the HARDEST thing i've ever had to go through. One minute I'll be okay & then the next I will be bauling my eyes out. I can't eat or sleep very well & I just have a pit in my stomach. In all honesty, it feels like a really bad break up. I can't shake this feeling, I just hope that it gets just a little easier for me and that I'm able to adjust to life without him here I don't know what else to do.
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    It has only been a couple of days - it's new, it's a shock and you need time to find your footing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ZivaD View Post

    It has only been a couple of days - it's new, it's a shock and you need time to find your footing.
    Thanks for the hugs. I know, I need to give myself time.. just right now it doesn't seem like it's going to get any better
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    My DB is deployed right now and it definitely isn't easy, if you ever need to vent or need advice my PM box is always open
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    Quote Originally Posted by spazzieabbie View Post

    My DB is deployed right now and it definitely isn't easy, if you ever need to vent or need advice my PM box is always open
    Thanks so much, I will probably take you up on that!
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    I'm experiencing my first deployment too, and I live alone (well I have two dogs) as well. It sucks but you can do it!
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    It's gonna get better love.
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