Hello I am new here. My husband has been in the military for 30 years, and I have already delt with one deployment for 14 months. Well my husband at some point will be deploying and he has been so stressed out with his own job, and the stress of the deployment. My husband does not deal with change well, but boy change really has to happen this time. He is clearly unhappy and has been so stressed that it is taking a toll on me. I let him vent because I figure that he needs it, but now all we talk about is his work, or hes on the phone, or texting. I feel lonely and he is not even gone, not to mention that it is starting to cause us to argue. I am trying to be patient, however for once I would like him to just deal, relax, and enjoy our relationship, but I do not know how to get there. Please help! thank you