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    First Deployed Birthday Woes

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    Well, my birthday was last Thursday and I've been really down since. It was the first birthday my DB miss since 4th grade. :/ I kept expecting him to suprise me and show up even though he swore it would be impossible this year. He suprised me two years in a row, saying it was impossible. I can honestly say that this has been the longest 8 days of my entire life. I understand completely but it doesn't change how much it hurts to miss him.

    Thing is, I even forgot it was my birthday... Facebook reminded me. I did nothing, no party, no bar, no nothing. Just sat by the phone all day waiting. I need him to get home, it's been 7 months of torture. Thank goodness for facebook chat! I check it every 15 seconds, I've checked it 3x since I started writing this.

    He re-enlisted and I joined the USAF last week so it'll be like this for a while. I guess I need to get used to it. Sandbox love never dies, right? I'm done bitching.

    XOXO Shawna
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    It's always tough when they miss important days DH missed every one of my birthdays until last year. It stinks. hope you get to hear from him soon!
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    Dh missed my birthday about two weeks ago, it was sad, but I am looking forward to next year even more
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    I finally heard from him! Ugh! I am going to adapt that mmmtat, I'll look forward to him making it up to mean... Whichmhemhas been purfusely promising for two days. Ha! Idc anymore. It's crazy how frustrated I am and then that 'unavailable' pops up at 3 am and I am right as rain. Ha!

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