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10-23-2009, 09:15 PM
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He's my Incredible Hulk
  
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The littlest things
The littlest things are setting me off today, I miss him so much. And today is only the two week mark. Just now I saw this
 and at first it made me laugh because DF used to say that all the time jokingly with his adorable dimples and his giant grin. And then out of no where I lose it.  I feel like I'm losing my mind
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10-23-2009, 11:17 PM
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♥Impatiently waiting for sand on my doorstep♥
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 The first few weeks to a month are the worst, you will get back into a routine and things will get better.
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10-23-2009, 11:20 PM
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He's My Love Monkey!!!!
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I think you need to change your mindset. If you decide NOT to be miserable, you won't be miserable. I refuse to allow myself to wallow in self pity when my husband is deployed. I don't want him to worry that I'm so upset that I can't handle things.
You will be ok. Focus on other things and choose NOT to be cranky.
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10-23-2009, 11:33 PM
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i hate iraq
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feel free to pm me. i have those days too :-\
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11-02-2009, 10:43 PM
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 ... As tough as that is to put into practice I think that staying busy and doing your best to keep a positive attitude is crucial to getting through this. At least that's what I keep telling myself... Then again, what do I know, I've just made it through my first week, haha. One week down is better than none 
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11-02-2009, 10:47 PM
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I have a hard time the first few weeks too.. I think its pretty normal.. trying to adjust, and missing them... Stay positive.. Stay busy... Maybe start your first care package for him...
 PS: He does have ah-mazing dimples!
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