Ever just have one of those days? - Deployment Support Groups

Cav Girl · 06-03-2009, 03:39 PM

DB, who I love very much has been gone a while. I dunno wtf is wrong with me. I've been laying around all day. I don't want to do anything. I just want to lay here and wait to see if he'll be online. I know I shouldn't do this, but I'm just sad today.

redhead_navygf · 06-03-2009, 03:48 PM

I know 100% how you feel. My DB left last Friday and since then I haven't wanted to do anything since. I won't be able to wait for him to get online for at least another 2 months.. Just hang in there!! Take the advice of my tattoo in the avatar: "One day at a time" That and talking to people on here have helped me through all the sad days. PM me or IM me if you ever want to talk to someone

asailorsgirl · 06-03-2009, 03:52 PM

i'm feeling EXACTLY the same today. it's almost 5:00 pm here, and i'm still in my pajamas. the only activity i've done today is drive thirty seconds up the street to buy a pack of cigarettes and a powerade. yes, in my pajamas.

seems like some days are great.. but others it takes everything in me to get out of bed in the morning.

AshleyG · 06-03-2009, 04:14 PM

hey don't worry about it. i have those days too. we all have those days! tomorrow will be a different day and hopefully it will be better.

rad sugar · 06-03-2009, 04:26 PM

yeah... i'm having one of those days too. i've been staying really busy and having fun, but today i just felt like staying home alone all day.

hang in there girlie... we all have bad days. i hope we both have a good one tomorrow!!

MadlyDeeplyTruly · 06-03-2009, 05:07 PM

Those are the days you have to kick yourself in the ass and leave the house. Go take a walk in the park, walk around the mall, do something, but get dressed and leave your house.

louisa85 · 06-03-2009, 06:21 PM

Me too. Feeling tired, rainy out, and got PMS. A winning combination

Cav Girl · 06-03-2009, 06:23 PM

thanks ladies almost 7pm and im still in bed.

Karla · 06-05-2009, 02:55 PM

It's ok, I have many good and bad days too, there has been weekends where I don't go out at all, I just keep to myself, or stay home all day sleep most of it and check to see if he is online too, so I feel your pain. I usually stay in during the week or try to surround myself with positive people. Hang in there!

Aleisha · 06-06-2009, 01:41 AM

I know exactly what your talking about the first two weeks of this deployment I didn't really talk to anyone I didn't have to..I got up walked to class ( gotta love dorm life...) after class I would go back to my room until dinner then back again right after I ate... Finally a friend said that people had been askeing her about me and she made me get out and do stuff... lord knows I never did anything witout my phone...I went tubing with my cell the other day (in a plastic bag that is) I think I'm doing pretty good (better then I thought I would) but then again I'm only 3 weeks into this thing...

06-03-2009, 03:39 PM	#1 (permalink)
Cav Girl patiently waiting for mi amor Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 766 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 1% Longevity: 9%	Ever just have one of those days? DB, who I love very much has been gone a while. I dunno wtf is wrong with me. I've been laying around all day. I don't want to do anything. I just want to lay here and wait to see if he'll be online. I know I shouldn't do this, but I'm just sad today. __________________ sorry ladies, im taken by pyxie78. she's my wifey

06-03-2009, 03:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
redhead_navygf His arms feel like home... Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Officially Norfolk, VA! Posts: 4,145 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 78% Longevity: 8%	I know 100% how you feel. My DB left last Friday and since then I haven't wanted to do anything since. I won't be able to wait for him to get online for at least another 2 months.. Just hang in there!! Take the advice of my tattoo in the avatar: "One day at a time" That and talking to people on here have helped me through all the sad days. PM me or IM me if you ever want to talk to someone __________________ My MSOS wifey BabySealEyes904 My Fall '09 Homecoming wifeys: Rei, KaylaH, His_Girl, louisa85, blinkybear, OneIllWife, lildixiemiss, ashley, lovemyjarhead and sapphiremommy

06-03-2009, 03:52 PM	#3 (permalink)
asailorsgirl Senior Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: I'm stuck in Cincinnati, while he's on the USS John C. Stennis. Posts: 107 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 8%	i'm feeling EXACTLY the same today. it's almost 5:00 pm here, and i'm still in my pajamas. the only activity i've done today is drive thirty seconds up the street to buy a pack of cigarettes and a powerade. yes, in my pajamas. seems like some days are great.. but others it takes everything in me to get out of bed in the morning. __________________ DB: in all reality, there are not enough words to explain how much you mean to me or how much i love you. you are my world and i'm never going to let you go.

06-03-2009, 04:26 PM	#5 (permalink)
rad sugar deployment one is so done! Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: me: bfe, florida. him: k-bay, hawaii. Posts: 7,072 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 55% Longevity: 14%	yeah... i'm having one of those days too. i've been staying really busy and having fun, but today i just felt like staying home alone all day. hang in there girlie... we all have bad days. i hope we both have a good one tomorrow!! __________________

06-03-2009, 05:07 PM	#6 (permalink)
MadlyDeeplyTruly Senior Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Me: Houston, TX Him: Ft Hood - Currently "The Sandbox" Posts: 942 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 9%	Those are the days you have to kick yourself in the ass and leave the house. Go take a walk in the park, walk around the mall, do something, but get dressed and leave your house. __________________

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06-03-2009, 04:14 PM	#4 (permalink)
AshleyG Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 550 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 9%	hey don't worry about it. i have those days too. we all have those days! tomorrow will be a different day and hopefully it will be better.

06-03-2009, 06:21 PM	#7 (permalink)
louisa85 Instigator Extraordinaire Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 7,153 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 44% Longevity: 14%	Me too. Feeling tired, rainy out, and got PMS. A winning combination __________________ Keep on keeping on.

06-03-2009, 06:23 PM	#8 (permalink)
Cav Girl patiently waiting for mi amor Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 766 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 1% Longevity: 9%	thanks ladies almost 7pm and im still in bed. __________________ sorry ladies, im taken by pyxie78. she's my wifey

06-05-2009, 02:55 PM	#9 (permalink)
Karla Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 77 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 7%	It's ok, I have many good and bad days too, there has been weekends where I don't go out at all, I just keep to myself, or stay home all day sleep most of it and check to see if he is online too, so I feel your pain. I usually stay in during the week or try to surround myself with positive people. Hang in there!

06-06-2009, 01:41 AM	#10 (permalink)
Aleisha Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 2 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 10%	I know exactly what your talking about the first two weeks of this deployment I didn't really talk to anyone I didn't have to..I got up walked to class ( gotta love dorm life...) after class I would go back to my room until dinner then back again right after I ate... Finally a friend said that people had been askeing her about me and she made me get out and do stuff... lord knows I never did anything witout my phone...I went tubing with my cell the other day (in a plastic bag that is) I think I'm doing pretty good (better then I thought I would) but then again I'm only 3 weeks into this thing...