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jetsetn2 · 01-15-2008, 01:21 PM

Anyone NOT hear from their SO in over 30 days??? I can't take it anymore. Everyone else seems to hear from their SO almost daily. I haven't heard anything from mine since mid December....no email, no letters and no calls. What the $?&%!!!!????

TLP06 · 01-15-2008, 01:30 PM

i dont know what branch your SO is in, but mine is and army boy and i havent gone longer than about 5-7 days,and he emailed me telling me things were going to be hectic and not to worry!

im sorry that your going through this, but im sure he is fine...maybe just extremly busy?

. how long has he been deployed? Before this has he had consistant contact with you?

jetsetn2 · 01-15-2008, 01:38 PM

Air force and it's been since November....

jetsetn2 · 01-15-2008, 01:45 PM

sorry...forgot to answer that we had constant contact up until mid-December then nothing. I'm really worried.

Michaelsgrl · 01-15-2008, 02:25 PM

wow, you are definitely in my prayers. hang in there, you are strong

PattersonGal · 01-15-2008, 02:29 PM

Mine is Navy, but he's in Iraq. I usually hear from him every couple of days, but the longest has been about 2 weeks.
Are you married? If you're married they would probably have told you by now if something had happened, right?
I'm sure he's fine and he's just really busy or they don't have access to communication right now. I hope you hear from him soon. You are both in my thoughts.

Hang in there

Navywife85 · 01-15-2008, 02:31 PM

mine is navy and he always says no news is good news so i dont know..

HOPE YOU HEAR SOMTHING SOON.

*MarineBug* · 01-15-2008, 02:56 PM

Do you have a family group you can call or a contact. Someone out there knows where he is and can give you an answer ...Good Luck

tinsygrl · 01-19-2008, 10:43 PM

The longest I have gone is almost 36 days but he finally called yesterday... he said he has been really busy ... he's with the marines I'm sure your man is fine... and that you will hear from him soon! but until then

don't stress too much!

missingmyman · 02-01-2008, 05:35 PM

bless your heart!! You hang in there! You just have to have faith that everything has got to be okay. easier said than done

i've heard of people going longer.....keep your head up!

01-15-2008, 01:21 PM	#1 (permalink)
jetsetn2 Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 16 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 32%	Worried sick! Anyone NOT hear from their SO in over 30 days??? I can't take it anymore. Everyone else seems to hear from their SO almost daily. I haven't heard anything from mine since mid December....no email, no letters and no calls. What the $?&%!!!!????

01-15-2008, 01:30 PM	#2 (permalink)
TLP06 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Fort Hood, TX Posts: 434 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 8% Longevity: 33%	i dont know what branch your SO is in, but mine is and army boy and i havent gone longer than about 5-7 days,and he emailed me telling me things were going to be hectic and not to worry! im sorry that your going through this, but im sure he is fine...maybe just extremly busy?. how long has he been deployed? Before this has he had consistant contact with you? __________________ Loving life as an army wife

01-15-2008, 02:29 PM	#6 (permalink)
PattersonGal c'est la vie Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,791 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 37%	Mine is Navy, but he's in Iraq. I usually hear from him every couple of days, but the longest has been about 2 weeks. Are you married? If you're married they would probably have told you by now if something had happened, right? I'm sure he's fine and he's just really busy or they don't have access to communication right now. I hope you hear from him soon. You are both in my thoughts. Hang in there __________________ If you love someone, let them go. If it was meant to be, then they will return to you.

01-15-2008, 02:31 PM	#7 (permalink)
Navywife85 luvin my Sailor Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: WA Posts: 4,724 Blog Entries: 4 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 18% Longevity: 31%	mine is navy and he always says no news is good news so i dont know.. HOPE YOU HEAR SOMTHING SOON. __________________

01-15-2008, 02:56 PM	#8 (permalink)
MarineBug KYLEY Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Me:SoCal DH:Afghanistan Stationed:Camp Pendleton Posts: 16,112 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (12) Activity: 48% Longevity: 34%	Do you have a family group you can call or a contact. Someone out there knows where he is and can give you an answer ...Good Luck __________________ Welcome Home

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01-15-2008, 01:38 PM	#3 (permalink)
jetsetn2 Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 16 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 32%	Air force and it's been since November....

01-15-2008, 01:45 PM	#4 (permalink)
jetsetn2 Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 16 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 32%	sorry...forgot to answer that we had constant contact up until mid-December then nothing. I'm really worried.

01-15-2008, 02:25 PM	#5 (permalink)
Michaelsgrl Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 69 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 36%	wow, you are definitely in my prayers. hang in there, you are strong

01-19-2008, 10:43 PM	#9 (permalink)
tinsygrl Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 3,501 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 47% Longevity: 40%	The longest I have gone is almost 36 days but he finally called yesterday... he said he has been really busy ... he's with the marines I'm sure your man is fine... and that you will hear from him soon! but until then don't stress too much!

02-01-2008, 05:35 PM	#10 (permalink)
missingmyman Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 150 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 30%	bless your heart!! You hang in there! You just have to have faith that everything has got to be okay. easier said than done i've heard of people going longer.....keep your head up!