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april1 · 12-18-2007, 01:23 AM

i`m going on 4 months and it still sucks. i have no one that understands.

PattersonGal · 12-18-2007, 01:23 AM

we do

april1 · 12-18-2007, 01:24 AM

its been 4 months and i feel even worse.

PattersonGal · 12-18-2007, 01:27 AM

Well, just keep reminding yourself that you love each other, and he WILL come home. He will be alright, and this experience will make you and your relationship stronger. Try to think positive...You can do this. Hang in there

(and spend lots of time on here!

)

TLP06 · 12-19-2007, 12:39 AM

Originally Posted by april1

i`m going on 4 months and it still sucks. i have no one that understands.

i know the feeling its been almost 2 month for me and my DB and its getting harder by the day, our love is the only thing keeping me going..i guess sometimes thats all i need. Keep you rhead up sweetie...talk to him if you need to...honesty and willingness to open up your feelings is always good in any realtionship, but this kind its pretty much a MUST!!! hope you start feeling better!!! im on here often, so ill be here anytime if u feel the need to vent!!

68W-LVR · 12-19-2007, 12:45 AM

Stay on here and chat away. DH has been over there almost a month now. I won't lie and tell you I don't crack but this site and all the amazing people have been life savers. Everyone here knows Exactly what your going through and they are seriously here to help.

Goddess_of_Metal · 12-19-2007, 03:26 AM

it's been almost 9 months, and i don't think i've gotten a handle on it still.....

timshel · 12-19-2007, 03:29 AM

Yeah, I'm still at the "I miss you come home NOW" stage. LOL. But after a few more months I'll move onto the "Am I really Married?" stage. It's crazy, and often times too hard to express with words, but it's all worth it when they hold you again.

Goddess_of_Metal · 12-19-2007, 03:48 AM

yea, i've gone through the am i really married stage.... LOL i mean even though we were married for like a year and like 3 or 4 months before he left.... LOL but it's like geez... am i really married??? lol but i think the day he first left.... i told him i was ready for homecoming.... LOL

carlyd89 · 12-19-2007, 04:22 AM

aww I'm sorry you're having a tough time hun. But we're all here for you when you need it. We all know what you're going through =]
PM me if you need to

12-18-2007, 01:23 AM	#1 (permalink)
april1 Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 8 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 37%	making it but barely i`m going on 4 months and it still sucks. i have no one that understands.

12-18-2007, 01:23 AM	#2 (permalink)
PattersonGal c'est la vie Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,791 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 37%	we do __________________ If you love someone, let them go. If it was meant to be, then they will return to you.

12-18-2007, 01:27 AM	#4 (permalink)
PattersonGal c'est la vie Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,791 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 37%	Well, just keep reminding yourself that you love each other, and he WILL come home. He will be alright, and this experience will make you and your relationship stronger. Try to think positive...You can do this. Hang in there (and spend lots of time on here! ) __________________ If you love someone, let them go. If it was meant to be, then they will return to you.

12-19-2007, 12:45 AM	#6 (permalink)
68W-LVR Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Fort Lewis but I'm still in Ohio Posts: 923 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 34%	Stay on here and chat away. DH has been over there almost a month now. I won't lie and tell you I don't crack but this site and all the amazing people have been life savers. Everyone here knows Exactly what your going through and they are seriously here to help. __________________

12-19-2007, 03:26 AM	#7 (permalink)
Goddess_of_Metal Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ft.Lewis/Olympia Posts: 61 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 32%	it's been almost 9 months, and i don't think i've gotten a handle on it still..... __________________ Is This Deployment Over Yet???

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12-18-2007, 01:24 AM	#3 (permalink)
april1 Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 8 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 37%	its been 4 months and i feel even worse.

12-19-2007, 03:29 AM	#8 (permalink)
timshel Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 533 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 33%	Yeah, I'm still at the "I miss you come home NOW" stage. LOL. But after a few more months I'll move onto the "Am I really Married?" stage. It's crazy, and often times too hard to express with words, but it's all worth it when they hold you again.

12-19-2007, 03:48 AM	#9 (permalink)
Goddess_of_Metal Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ft.Lewis/Olympia Posts: 61 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 32%	yea, i've gone through the am i really married stage.... LOL i mean even though we were married for like a year and like 3 or 4 months before he left.... LOL but it's like geez... am i really married??? lol but i think the day he first left.... i told him i was ready for homecoming.... LOL __________________ Is This Deployment Over Yet???

12-19-2007, 04:22 AM	#10 (permalink)
carlyd89 Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,240 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 33%	aww I'm sorry you're having a tough time hun. But we're all here for you when you need it. We all know what you're going through =] PM me if you need to