This is it... he's gone - Deployment Preparation

little.lili · 11-01-2009, 08:27 PM

I'm taking him to the airport tomorrow

I've been pretty ok the last couple of days (probably cause I've cried enough already) but I don't know if I can do this

I don't want to

I have a huge presentation for school tomorrow too

I don't even know how I'm going to get through it... I have to drop DH off and race off to school...

I just....

Ugh

I'm so sad

MissTori1987 · 11-01-2009, 08:30 PM

I am sorry, darling! I cannot say that I know what exactly you are feeling right now (have never experienced a deployment yet). You can do this! Just remain positive and start some new hobbies to past the time!

BlueBird · 11-01-2009, 08:36 PM

We're all here for you hun!

Marines_Girl · 11-01-2009, 08:45 PM

We're all here for you

Cassanoodle · 11-01-2009, 11:38 PM

Good luck on your presentation

chriswifey · 11-01-2009, 11:40 PM

This was me last week. I thought I was going to die when they said it was time for his plane to board but it definitely gets better with time...oh and wine.

MS234755 · 11-01-2009, 11:41 PM

Try to breathe

I'm sorry hun. The sooner you take him, the sooner he gets to come back! PLEASE pm me if you want to talk

Roxie0816 · 11-01-2009, 11:45 PM

Lady T · 11-02-2009, 12:00 AM

Welcome to the awesome club, well not awesome but lots of people here for you!

silverrein · 11-02-2009, 12:11 AM

That final goodbye sucks, I'm not gonna lie.

I was in a similar situation as you, only I had a major paper due the next day. I just reminded myself to keep it together long enough to get what I needed done. I allowed myself to fall apart later.

I was a little numb when he first left. It took a good week before I finally broke down.

If you ever need anything just PM me girl. Just take it one day at a time and allow yourself sometime to let it all out, but hold it together long enough to get through your presentation tomorrow. I'll be sending good vibes your way.

11-01-2009, 08:27 PM	#1 (permalink)
little.lili .boricua. Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Oklahoma City Posts: 2,466 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 84% Longevity: 32%	This is it... he's gone I'm taking him to the airport tomorrow I've been pretty ok the last couple of days (probably cause I've cried enough already) but I don't know if I can do this I don't want to I have a huge presentation for school tomorrow too I don't even know how I'm going to get through it... I have to drop DH off and race off to school... I just.... Ugh I'm so sad __________________ Dreaming of a 2011 BABY

11-01-2009, 08:30 PM	#2 (permalink)
MissTori1987 Snuggie + Nibblet = FOREVER Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 1,675 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 63% Longevity: 24%	I am sorry, darling! I cannot say that I know what exactly you are feeling right now (have never experienced a deployment yet). You can do this! Just remain positive and start some new hobbies to past the time! __________________

11-01-2009, 08:36 PM	#3 (permalink)
BlueBird operation: be strong Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 5,160 Classifieds: (6) Activity: 91% Longevity: 19%	We're all here for you hun! __________________

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11-01-2009, 11:40 PM	#6 (permalink)
chriswifey Missing my heart Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 1,652 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 52% Longevity: 14%	This was me last week. I thought I was going to die when they said it was time for his plane to board but it definitely gets better with time...oh and wine. __________________ All at once I had it all but it doesn’t mean anything  now that your gone.

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MS234755 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 4,442 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 91% Longevity: 15%	Try to breathe I'm sorry hun. The sooner you take him, the sooner he gets to come back! PLEASE pm me if you want to talk __________________ Wifey to HisCupcake and Nicklenack- The two awesome Nic(h)oles

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Roxie0816 One day at a time Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Ohio Posts: 3,568 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 81% Longevity: 16%	__________________

11-02-2009, 12:00 AM	#9 (permalink)
Lady T Is it May 2010 yet? Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: San Diego, California Posts: 7,530 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 67% Longevity: 32%	Welcome to the awesome club, well not awesome but lots of people here for you! __________________ Missing the love of my life for too long...

11-02-2009, 12:11 AM	#10 (permalink)
silverrein surviving graduate school Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: San Marcos, TX Posts: 417 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 45% Longevity: 4%	That final goodbye sucks, I'm not gonna lie. I was in a similar situation as you, only I had a major paper due the next day. I just reminded myself to keep it together long enough to get what I needed done. I allowed myself to fall apart later. I was a little numb when he first left. It took a good week before I finally broke down. If you ever need anything just PM me girl. Just take it one day at a time and allow yourself sometime to let it all out, but hold it together long enough to get through your presentation tomorrow. I'll be sending good vibes your way. __________________ And I thought I loved you then...