I feel Pathetic - Deployment Preparation

calikidd222 · 11-24-2007, 05:21 PM

I feel so pathetic. I was so proud of myself for surviving a year long deployment while the hubby was in Iraq. We made it. Now he is gone to NTC for one month and I am a mess. He only has seven more days till he comes home and for some reason it seems like seven years. I am soo worried that this second deployment is going to be unbearable and I am going to end up in a nut house. Uuuuugggghhh!!!

rcwant2be · 11-24-2007, 05:25 PM

my db is going to DC in the spring for 6 weeks for training & i'm afraid i'm gonna hate it too. hopefully things'll work out so i can go visit him. i've also already started wondering about deployment #2, which isn't until early 09. gah!

~~Bex~~ · 11-24-2007, 05:27 PM

every det, deployment, training, school, separation is different. therefore, you might feel different every time... it's normal

i hope it gets easier!!

*MarineBug* · 11-24-2007, 05:29 PM

Sounds pretty normal...Everything is different every time becuase we all change and feelings become more. You get used to something and then it isnt there anymore. Wher in cali are you?

11-24-2007, 05:31 PM

I'm sorry, hun. I hope you feel better once he gets back.

calikidd222 · 11-24-2007, 05:58 PM

Thanks all for being so supportive. I actually am in Fort Hood, TX but am originally from Sacramento, CA. Hubby called and it was wonderful to hear his voice. Is it next Saturday yet? That's when he gets home from NTC.

11-24-2007, 05:21 PM	#1 (permalink)
calikidd222 Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Fort Hood, TX Posts: 8 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 33%	I feel Pathetic I feel so pathetic. I was so proud of myself for surviving a year long deployment while the hubby was in Iraq. We made it. Now he is gone to NTC for one month and I am a mess. He only has seven more days till he comes home and for some reason it seems like seven years. I am soo worried that this second deployment is going to be unbearable and I am going to end up in a nut house. Uuuuugggghhh!!!

11-24-2007, 05:29 PM	#4 (permalink)
MarineBug KYLEY Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Me:SoCal DH:Afghanistan Stationed:Camp Pendleton Posts: 16,113 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (12) Activity: 48% Longevity: 34%	Sounds pretty normal...Everything is different every time becuase we all change and feelings become more. You get used to something and then it isnt there anymore. Wher in cali are you? __________________ Welcome Home

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11-24-2007, 05:27 PM	#3 (permalink)
~~Bex~~ Banned Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: san diego, ca Posts: 30,189 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 99%	every det, deployment, training, school, separation is different. therefore, you might feel different every time... it's normal i hope it gets easier!!

11-24-2007, 05:31 PM	#5 (permalink)
faerielyght Guest Posts: n/a Activity: 0% Longevity: 0%	I'm sorry, hun. I hope you feel better once he gets back.

11-24-2007, 05:58 PM	#6 (permalink)
calikidd222 Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Fort Hood, TX Posts: 8 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 33%	Thanks all for being so supportive. I actually am in Fort Hood, TX but am originally from Sacramento, CA. Hubby called and it was wonderful to hear his voice. Is it next Saturday yet? That's when he gets home from NTC.