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    Quote Originally Posted by Moose. View Post
    the only scenario that I would be ok with would be a "rigged" bouquet and garter toss to a specific couple and then he proposes since the tradition is they're the next to get married. And it would have to be my best best friend or a family member
    I like this idea. It's probably the only circumstance in which I'd be okay with it.

    Then again, DB and I have discussed our wedding/future and agree that it's not like we'd have big day with all of the attention on us. If I didn't know in advance, I'd be pissed by it because it's *~our day*~ lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EmilyPT View Post
    Meh, really wouldn't bother me. But I really don't like being the center of attention, so to be able to share the spotlight with someone else would have been a relief for me. I loved our wedding and everything about it. But I'm so glad we had a JOP that I can look back on as just the two of us
    Yess im the same way!! Im good with zero attention being on me haha.

    I still think it should have been clear with the bride and groom first though.
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    Not in my opinion worst nightmare. But also I wouldn't care. Shoot we celebrate birthdays of other people at weddings in this family. Its a party. Yes it is a specific party but as long as the bride and groom are not being ignored for this other thing than eh, who cares.
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    For me, I can think of a lot worse ways to ruin my big day. I would find it endearing to me if someone I was close enough to invite to my wedding, chose to use it as a platform to get engaged. But I was a pretty laid back bride. However, I can totally see why it would upset someone.
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    I'd be pretty pissed but it wouldn't be my worst nightmare

    Actually tbh having a wedding at all is my worst nightmare.
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    My worst nightmare would probably be the groom not showing up I really wouldn't care if someone used my wedding reception as a time to propose. The world does not revolve around me, sadly.
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    I would not be a happy camper, that's for sure!
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    Quote Originally Posted by AndreaClaire View Post
    Tacky tacky tacky . I personally hate proposals that are so out there in front of everyone anyway. It's so much harder/awkward if she wanted to say no .
    Right? Jeez. How embarrassing.

    Quote Originally Posted by Moose. View Post
    the only scenario that I would be ok with would be a "rigged" bouquet and garter toss to a specific couple and then he proposes since the tradition is they're the next to get married. And it would have to be my best best friend or a family member
    This is a really cute idea. I'd be more likely to go along with something like this if it was my very best friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AndreaClaire View Post
    Tacky tacky tacky . I personally hate proposals that are so out there in front of everyone anyway. It's so much harder/awkward if she wanted to say no .
    hahaha that would be horrible!!

    Quote Originally Posted by gogogadgetsam View Post
    My worst nightmare would probably be the groom not showing up I really wouldn't care if someone used my wedding reception as a time to propose. The world does not revolve around me, sadly.
    I completely agree haha
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    Quote Originally Posted by Heisenberg View Post
    I'd be pretty pissed but it wouldn't be my worst nightmare

    Actually tbh having a wedding at all is my worst nightmare.
    Used to be mine too, still not really excited about it yet. Is there any law that you have to be sober during the ceremony?
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