Strip Clubs

[Brandi]

are you okay with your SO going? alone, with you, both, neither?


I would never try to 'mother' Jason by saying he's not 'allowed' to go, but he knows I'm not a fan. I have been to several (before we were married and before I was even legal for that matter ) and I honestly believe that most of them are for absolute scum bags. Sorry if that offends anyone, but it's the truth. I've never seen a classy strip club with women who respect themselves. Its usually trash grinding on trash. Maybe I just have not been to the right places I'm not totally against going WITH him -MAYBE-, but I would be extremely resentful if he spent his free time away from me at a club lusting over other women... and spending our money on them If he's going to lust and spend money, I want to be with him

[IgglesmumX2]

I'm not crazy about Dh going alone but am okay with him going with the guys every now and then. We have been talking about going together sometime.

[Nickschic]

I have been with him before and he has gone with friends. It doesn't bother me when he does go but he wont go by himself. It has been awhile since he has been to one I think he may have went to one when he was in Bolxi for C school but he was the desinated driver and chaprion (sp) for the younger guys.

[~Stephie~]

I don't have a problem with him going.. I don't get mad at him if he mentions going with a bunch of the guys... I don't tell him "hey why don't you go out to the strip club with the guys either" ... I think the fact that I don't get mad and he can't get a rise out of me takes away all the fun of going... he's never gone when he's talked about it.... we've talked about going together though... who knows.. maybe one day

[Becca]

We've both been, but never been together. I don't care if he goes - but I want to know when he does.

[Rachael]

I dont care about him going as long as I know....however, I dont want him blowing all this money on getting lap dances for him and his buddies or whatever it is that they do there. I have never been....but I hear it can be expensive

I don't mind if he goes with his friends from back in PA. He has before and they said the strippers were nasty and it was more fun to make fun of them!! I don't know any of the guys he is friendly with on his boat so I'm not sure I would want him to go with them.

[KevzQueen]

I've never been to one and as far as I know, he has never been to one. If he has, it's only been when he was at school. He is always home.
I don't think I'd like the idea of him going and lusting over women and then coming home to put all that energy into me. I want to be the one that gets him hot. I even mentioned getting a pole for our bedroom when we finally get our own place.
I know it would bother me if he gave our money to the strippers. We can find better things to do with it.

[dream]

i don't care if he goes as long as i know and he doesn't spend too much money

[Kaymara]

I dont really care as long as I know and preferrably went with. But otherwise I dont care. Providing he doesnt blow a ****ton of money there..I have seen some classy ones before. They are few and far between but they are out there...