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    I read this today:

    "My husband and I are getting married soon and the other day we were at his parents, who are really old fashoined. They said they had something to talk to us about and to recommend. We both agreed that as christinas he will be head of the house and I will obey, but his parents said that my husband needs to be able to enforce his authority in case i ever get out of line. We asked what they meant and his mom pulled out a hairbrush and handed it to his dad and he said "With this" I was confused. His mom then said that his dad would spank her with that over his knee whenever she was out of line or disobedient. And now as newlyweds, my husband should apply the same discipline to me when I need it. I mean my fiance and I are really old fashoined especially for our age and I was raised they way and was even spanked by my parents until I was 18, so it's not that weird for me. I just want some opinions. I do think wives should obey, and that maybe that's what is wrong with alot of families and why divorce is so common, maybe more husbands should give their wives a good old fashioned spanking when we need it. So should my husband spank me with a hairbrush when I disobey? Is it wrong? I don't think so."


    And my first reaction was .... OH MY GOD!
    I think its completely wrong to the point of being funny.
    What do you guys think of it?

    Just to reinterate: this is NOT me or my life. this is something i READ ON THE INTERNET. I am NOT looking for advice...
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    I don't know if I should laugh or cry :C
    I'm so conflicted!
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    It is up to each married couple. I would not allow it but if others think it works for them more power to them. I also don't obey my husband because he is not my father (which is yet another reason spanking me is a no go as he is not my father).
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    Hmmm. Well whatever floats her boat.

    I like a little slap and tickle in the bedroom but if hubs just tried to "discipline" me, well we'd have problems
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    I honestly don't know if I could've taken that seriously, I'm kinda immature like that. However, I think it would lead to other things, hehe, not end up as a method of discipline for you :p
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    you think couples have problems because the women don't obey?
    Why shouldn't the men be the one to obey.
    But I do get your point.
    If we still had slavery, our economy wouldn't be in such a mess. And if people learned to obey their betters...maybe....o never mind.
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    I don't know if I'd be able to keep a straight face if someone suggested that to me. It sounds like it would be a joke! Seriously though, as a Christian, I do believe in the male head of household concept, but I don't think that would give my (future) husband the right to discipline me like that.
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    If it works for them, more power to them.

    However if DH ever tried to spank me with a brush outside of being a smart ass, I would roll over laughing and them beat him with the brush.
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    To me, husbands and wives are equal partners, so neither should have to obey the other. And if any guy tries to spank me as a punishment (not in a joking, flirty way once we're at that point), he'll get his ass kicked by me.

    But, if it works for them, then I'm not going to judge.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dougall View Post
    I read this today:

    "My husband and I are getting married soon and the other day we were at his parents, who are really old fashoined. They said they had something to talk to us about and to recommend. We both agreed that as christinas he will be head of the house and I will obey, but his parents said that my husband needs to be able to enforce his authority in case i ever get out of line. We asked what they meant and his mom pulled out a hairbrush and handed it to his dad and he said "With this" I was confused. His mom then said that his dad would spank her with that over his knee whenever she was out of line or disobedient. And now as newlyweds, my husband should apply the same discipline to me when I need it. I mean my fiance and I are really old fashoined especially for our age and I was raised they way and was even spanked by my parents until I was 18, so it's not that weird for me. I just want some opinions. I do think wives should obey, and that maybe that's what is wrong with alot of families and why divorce is so common, maybe more husbands should give their wives a good old fashioned spanking when we need it. So should my husband spank me with a hairbrush when I disobey? Is it wrong? I don't think so."


    And my first reaction was .... OH MY GOD!
    I think its completely wrong to the point of being funny.
    What do you guys think of it?
    Being spanked by a parent is one thing. You're a child. That's totally different than being spanked as an adult by your husband. As an adult, you already know right from wrong, so what will that be teaching you? Not to go against your husband? Screw that. I wouldn't want to live in fear of my husband. And what constitues "getting out of line" anyhow? That's what I'd like to know. That could be anything and everything from different thoughts, wants and opinions. I know there are probably a lot of guys who would LOVE to have that kind of control. No thanks, that won't work for me. What does your husband think about it?
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