WWYD? Knock, risk it, or miss the chance? update post 32 - Debates

joshsbeautiful · 11-02-2009, 04:20 PM

You are at a friend's house. You know these friends are cool with you having sex there. You have the chance to have sex with someone you've been eyeing ALL night. But you don't have a condom. You know your hosts do though... What do you do?
a. knock on their bedroom door and ask for a condom
b. have sex anyways
c. miss the chance and go abstinent.

If you were the hosts, would you want to be interrupted (possibly during

) or have your friends have unprotected sex?

DH's friend, G, didn't want to knock on the door and bug us so he had sex without protection.

DH said next time, he should just come get a condom... it's not like G doesn't know we have sex.

He's heard us.

Jenn026 · 11-02-2009, 04:21 PM

Get a condom, definately, or don't do it.

If your friends are cool with it what's the big deal?

I would never have unprotected sex if I was single.

Rain. · 11-02-2009, 04:23 PM

Get a condom or not have sex.

Having sex without a condom isn't an option.

bb1982 · 11-02-2009, 04:25 PM

If it's a good friend that wouldn't care, I would ask for a condom.

NEVER would I have unprotected sex if I was single.

Ellie · 11-02-2009, 04:25 PM

Get a condom.

Me and DF were having

at a friends party, and she walked in and asked if we had a condom, we said no, so she went and got one, threw it at us and said to enjoy.

Mrs.Nimkumpoop · 11-02-2009, 04:26 PM

Yeah, when I was single there was no way I'd have sex with someone without a condom. Nowadays I don't give a ****

But seriously, if my friend had knocked on the door (even while we were having sex) to get a condom, I really wouldn't have cared, it's not like they didn't know we do it

eelo · 11-02-2009, 04:27 PM

I'd take the prospective partner with me to the scote to get some condoms. We'd need several, so we could stop a few times on the way back to the house.

I mean really, if it's got THAT much potential, why limit it to one occurrence?

Heather LB. · 11-02-2009, 04:28 PM

Get a condom or don't have sex.

Amy · 11-02-2009, 04:30 PM

Originally Posted by eelo

I'd take the prospective partner with me to the scote to get some condoms. We'd need several, so we could stop a few times on the way back to the house.

I mean really, if it's got THAT much potential, why limit it to one occurrence?

I wouldn't knock on the friend's door to ask, and I wouldn't just go without and hope for the best. I would either wait for a better time, or head to the nearest convenience store.

*Kim* · 11-02-2009, 04:31 PM

If I'm comfortable with that in my home and don't want to be disturbed I may put them in a location he/she would have access to. But personally I don't think I like the idea... they are adults. If they are having sex they should be prepared. If they are not... get in the car and go to the drug store. I shouldn't have to be responsible for their sexual health.

11-02-2009, 04:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
joshsbeautiful Don't follow in my footsteps...I run into walls. Join Date: May 2008 Location: Fort Carson, CO Posts: 8,095 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 96% Longevity: 25%	WWYD? Knock, risk it, or miss the chance? update post 32 You are at a friend's house. You know these friends are cool with you having sex there. You have the chance to have sex with someone you've been eyeing ALL night. But you don't have a condom. You know your hosts do though... What do you do? a. knock on their bedroom door and ask for a condom b. have sex anyways c. miss the chance and go abstinent. If you were the hosts, would you want to be interrupted (possibly during ) or have your friends have unprotected sex? DH's friend, G, didn't want to knock on the door and bug us so he had sex without protection. DH said next time, he should just come get a condom... it's not like G doesn't know we have sex. He's heard us. __________________ the best wifeys... LovingMyAirman22, Ash Mark's, ~Mrs.Andy~, willowtree, and Kaylin Underweight is unhealthy too. Last edited by joshsbeautiful; 11-04-2009 at 08:20 PM.

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Jenn026 Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Seymour Johnson AFB Posts: 2,509 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 100% Longevity: 29%	Get a condom, definately, or don't do it. If your friends are cool with it what's the big deal? I would never have unprotected sex if I was single. __________________ Plan for the worst, hope for the best, and let your fears hibernate. ~Jacey Eckhart I my wifeys, Twilliams and CubLub63!

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Rain. MilitarySOS Jewel Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 19,156 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 36% Longevity: 35%	Get a condom or not have sex. Having sex without a condom isn't an option. __________________

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bb1982 just call me Brando Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: soon to be Kbay, Hawaii!! Posts: 1,706 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 31% Longevity: 12%	If it's a good friend that wouldn't care, I would ask for a condom. NEVER would I have unprotected sex if I was single. __________________

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Ellie boink Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Pensacola, FL Posts: 3,599 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 94% Longevity: 12%	Get a condom. Me and DF were having at a friends party, and she walked in and asked if we had a condom, we said no, so she went and got one, threw it at us and said to enjoy. __________________ Wifey to savvy<3dizzy and PFCCJCgirl If life was easy where would all the adventures be? Facebook

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11-02-2009, 04:26 PM	#6 (permalink)
Mrs.Nimkumpoop What gave u the impression that I give a damn what u think? Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: For once there's no HIM and ME, it's US =): Honolulu, HI Posts: 13,204 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 69% Longevity: 20%	Yeah, when I was single there was no way I'd have sex with someone without a condom. Nowadays I don't give a **** But seriously, if my friend had knocked on the door (even while we were having sex) to get a condom, I really wouldn't have cared, it's not like they didn't know we do it __________________ Formerly known as ~Mrs.Andy~ I have 45 wives. You know who you are. I love you all I also love my twin GuamAliAma, my twinner [JJ], and my mistress Hope.

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eelo "Delightfully off course." Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Va Beach Posts: 25,150 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 98% Longevity: 27%	I'd take the prospective partner with me to the scote to get some condoms. We'd need several, so we could stop a few times on the way back to the house. I mean really, if it's got THAT much potential, why limit it to one occurrence? __________________ I proudly make use of the IGNORE feature. If I don't answer your posts, it might just be that you're irrelevant. If you think your fingers are pink.... just wait till you see your poop tomorrow! (jennypage 9/27) Originally Posted by NikkNakk 11/18/09: wow...i cant believe she did that on her thingy

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Heather LB. Hayden's Mommy Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Alexandria Bay, New York Posts: 6,513 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 57% Longevity: 12%	Get a condom or don't have sex. __________________ wifey to xocassandralee

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Kim Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: So Cal for me, Sasebo, Japan for him. Posts: 3,981 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 59% Longevity: 23%	If I'm comfortable with that in my home and don't want to be disturbed I may put them in a location he/she would have access to. But personally I don't think I like the idea... they are adults. If they are having sex they should be prepared. If they are not... get in the car and go to the drug store. I shouldn't have to be responsible for their sexual health. __________________