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    Do homosexual individuals or those that are bisexual CHOOSE to be that way? Are they born that way or are they choosing that at some point? Why do you feel that way.

    Please let's keep it civil. If someone feels that religiously they choose then that's it let them be, let's not turn this into religious bashing please.

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    Personally I do NOT feel it's a choice in 99% of the cases. I do feel some of the people out there do choose it in the case of the woman who swears off men because of bad relationships kwim?
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    I'll believe homosexuality is a choice the day a heterosexual tells me they CHOSE to be with the opposite sex I know I never made a conscious choice to be attracted to males, so I don't understand thinking that my aunt made a conscious choice to find women attractive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss B Hav'n View Post
    I'll believe homosexuality is a choice the day a heterosexual tells me they CHOSE to be with the opposite sex I know I never made a conscious choice to be attracted to males, so I don't understand thinking that my aunt made a conscious choice to find women attractive.
    I've also never heard a gay/lesbian man/woman say they chose their sexuality.
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    No it's not a choice.
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    I personally believe you are born gay or straight. HOWEVER, I also believe certain upbringings can influence your lifestyle. that's all from me

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    No, I don't think it's a choice. Considering how much prejudice and hate homosexuals still face, the idea that some have that people choose to be gay flabbergasts me.




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    Quote Originally Posted by INDPNDNTwomn05 View Post
    I personally believe you are born gay or straight. HOWEVER, I also believe certain upbringings can influence your lifestyle. that's all from me
    what kind of upbringings?
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    Quote Originally Posted by INDPNDNTwomn05 View Post
    I personally believe you are born gay or straight. HOWEVER, I also believe certain upbringings can influence your lifestyle. that's all from me
    I know you said that was all from you, but the last half of your response intrigues me. Would you please expand?
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    Not a choice. Also I think that people who swear off men like the OP mentioned were bi to start with not that they switched their orientation.
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    personally i think i was born straight.. i dunno soo i guess it goes both ways?
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