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    Question Begging to get caught...

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    There've been a lot of cheating threads in the past few months and they've got me thinking ... do you think some people WANT to get caught? Do you think that they might possibly think getting caught would be an easy "out" of their current relationships? Or do you think it's stupidity on their part for leaving stuff on their computers/cell phones??

    For me personally, I think that getting "caught in the act" is an easier way to have their SO find out about it, than actually having to own their actions and admit their infidelity. I personally think it's a way to feel less guilt about what they've done. JMO

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    I agree. Some of these dudes, I read the post and I'm thinking...they HAD to have done that on purpose! No cheater just leaves his email logged in or phone laying around or whatever.
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    Sad to say, but I know quite a few people who have used cheating as a means to get out of a relationship. So yes, they did want to get caught and made it pretty easy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Loretta View Post
    I agree. Some of these dudes, I read the post and I'm thinking...they HAD to have done that on purpose! No cheater just leaves his email logged in or phone laying around or whatever.
    Exactly. I know it's not like that in every situation, but when it's blatently out there, like you've said, IMO it's a sign they want to be exposed.. kwim?

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    I think that for the most part people that cheat pretty much want to be caught. If they didn't they wouldn't do it at all. Its an easy way out.
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    i don't doubt it....sometimes it's just the easyway out...because it's harder to sit down and tell a person to their face that they don't like them anymore than it is to go have "fun" with someone else

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    Quote Originally Posted by ~Christina~ View Post
    i don't doubt it....sometimes it's just the easyway out...because it's harder to sit down and tell a person to their face that they don't like them anymore than it is to go have "fun" with someone else
    ... I just feel that if you're gonna find someone new, have the balls to tell the person you're with that you're unhappy and want out. You owe them that much because at one point you supposedly cared..kwim?

    I had a DB way before G who cheated with any piece he could get ahold of. It hurt A LOT more to find out from someone other than him.

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    Yes...I do think some people want to get caught....cowards....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loretta View Post
    I agree. Some of these dudes, I read the post and I'm thinking...they HAD to have done that on purpose! No cheater just leaves his email logged in or phone laying around or whatever.
    Yep....its like its better for the SO that's being cheated on to leave. I guess its to make it seem okay in the end that its their punishment.
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