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View Poll Results: do you want them to ideally wait till marriage for sex?

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    sex and your kids---ideally

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    so ideally would you like your kids to wait till they get married to have sex. not what is realistic but what you ideally want in a perfect world.

    in debates because it could get nasty.
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    I guess if they are an adult it doesn't really matter to me if they are married or not. I would prefer though that if they are underage that they not have sex at all, I'm not going to be raising my baby's baby.
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    I really don't care if they wait for marriage or not.
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    Yes, sometimes I wish I would have waited. We don't have children yet so I'm not sure how much we'll push for it but ideally, I'd like for them to wait.
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    No. I would never marry someone without sex first(and possibly get stuck with bad sex or small penis forever) so why should I expect them to?

    In a perfect world, they will wait until they are with someone they truly love, though and they'll take proper precautions because mama WILL keep a condom bowl so there are no excuses
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    ideally i'd like dd to be married first but i'm going to support dd in whatever choice she makes as long as she's being healthy
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    No, I just want them to be safe about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Loretta View Post

    In a perfect world, they will wait until they are with someone they truly love, though and they'll take proper precautions because mama WILL keep a condom bowl so there are no excuses
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    Quote Originally Posted by Circus cyaneus View Post
    I guess if they are an adult it doesn't really matter to me if they are married or not. I would prefer though that if they are underage that they not have sex at all, I'm not going to be raising my baby's baby.
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    but i dont really care, as long as they're adults and are willing to accept any consequences
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    I put yes, but I changed my mind.

    IDEALLY, I would like for them to wait until they are emotionally mature enough and really love the person they're knockin boots with. And I would like them to wait until after high school at least.
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