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View Poll Results: How do you feel about "swingers"?

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  • would never even consider it

    118 66.29%
  • have considered it, but probably wouldn't

    32 17.98%
  • I am one, or was one in the past

    8 4.49%
  • I know people who are

    37 20.79%
  • it is unacceptable

    40 22.47%
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    swingers? how do you feel about this?

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    Ok, so a friend of mine just told me that her and her husband are "swingers". At first I was like, what is a swinger? I had no clue. She told me and I'm still kind of shocked. How do you feel about "swinging" (I guess that's what it's called). Would you do it? do you know someone who does? I'll make a poll.

    *if this is not the right place for this, feel free to move it... not trying to cause any problems... I am genuinley curious to see if this is something that is widely accepted or not, since I had never heard of it befor.
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    Personally, I can't understand the mindset of how someone could do that and not be upset or jealous. I don't think there's anything wrong with it really, it's just not something I could ever be involved in.
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    No. Just No. I would never do it.
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    no, I could never do it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MIKOSWIFEY View Post
    Personally, I can't understand the mindset of how someone could do that and not be upset or jealous. I don't think there's anything wrong with it really, it's just not something I could ever be involved in.
    exactly how I feel
    Katie- Mommy to Kylee 10-30-05 (loving big sister, Ms. independent, intelligent, princess) and Auriana 09-17-08 (miracle baby with down syndrome, heart defects, hearing impairment, digestive problems, tube fed since birth, but determined to succeed, strong, loving, happy)

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    Quote Originally Posted by his_little_spoon View Post
    no, I could never do it.
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    Someone on the boards is a swinger I do believe... perhaps she will see this.
    I personally don't care if people want to be swingers... if it works for them, then why not? My husband and I have talked about it... I don't know if we could ever do it... We certainly aren't ready right now... but I see nothing wrong with it.
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    Doesn't bother me, haven't ever really thought about it with my DF.
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    Where is the "Would never consider it, but as long as they don't have kids then I don't care." option? lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by mirph View Post
    Where is the "Would never consider it, but as long as they don't have kids then I don't care." option? lol
    Why does that matter?
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