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    Confused S/O would you be mad if....

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    Would you be mad if your SO took another girl, that you didn't know, out to dinner?

    Would it make a difference if it was dinner or lunch?
    Would the type of restaurant make a difference?



    DB and I had this problem last year
    when he and an old flame went out to dinner as friends to check in with each other...
    it pissed me off...
    I'd have felt better if it was lunch at some random cafe
    instead of sushi at a nice restaurant...
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    Yes, I would be VERY upset. I know that DH would never ever do that to me though.
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    I agree
    I think dinner = more formal = more date like
    ya know?
    just over all not cool
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    Honestly, I wouldn't care whether it was breakfast, lunch or dinner. I trust my DH and the times that he has dined out with other women I have not had an issue with it. Some have been co-workers, some friends and sometimes it was for "work" while he was recruiting
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    Lunch..dinner....I don't give a damn! why in the hell is he taking some girl when he should be taking, oh i don't know, ME!!??? I am the one who puts up with him and his kids all the freaking time....if he wants to chat with some girl, friend or not, do it at work or she can come here WHEN I AM AT HOME. Or better yet, we will find a babysitter and all of us can go out. That shouldnt' be a problem if it is just friends doing stuff.
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    i expect that if my dh wanted to take anyone to dinner or lunch, he would check in with me first. of course if i know her, most likely i won't care what or where they are eating. if i don't know her, we'd have to come to some agreement about comfort level. i know he has gone out to nice dinners with an ex, but we are all very close and i have no problem with him taking her to dinner or vice versa.
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    i trust dh but i would not want him to be in a position where things could get out of hand such as another woman hitting on him
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    I wouldn't be happy about it.

    I'm very territorial, and one on one eating moments are mine. lol

    I guess I wouldn't care if it was business.... but that's about it. Unless I know the woman, its not happening.
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    woops again.
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    Like I said in the other thread DB did just go to dinner with a girl I don't know. I could care less. They are friends and they wanted to go out and catch up. I have gone out to dinner with guys too. Dinner does is not them sleeping together it is them sitting at a table eating food and talking. If I was around I would have been invited, but I'm not so they went alone. No big deal man.
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