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    Would you be mad if....

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    Would you mind if your SO went to lunch with another girl that you didn't know?
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    Nope, I trust my husband.
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    Nope. He went to McDonald's and bought his friend/coworker Amanda a McFlurry yesterday.
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    Depends on the situation. But my thing is my DH doesn't do things that would make me feel uncomfortable so he'd tell me about it first, but he still wouldn't do it. For him it still rings the word "date" around it, especially if its just him and some other girl.

    But I'd be slightly uncomfortable but it wouldn't drive me insane, I trust him.
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    A coworker...no problem. Old friend...no problem. A strange chick he just met randomly? That would bother me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by brandewijn View Post
    A coworker...no problem. Old friend...no problem. A strange chick he just met randomly? That would bother me.
    Yeah that might raise my eyebrow and I'd be in 20 question mode
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    Depends on who the chick is and why I don't know her. If he's spending OUR money on her....I'd better damn well know who the hell she is!!!
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    There really isn't any reason for him to go to lunch with another woman alone. Just like there isn't any reason for me to go to lunch with another man alone. Dh and I are each other's accountablity partners. (we're Christians) We help each other grow in our personal relationships with God and each other. IMO, it just opens a big can of worms when you start doing things that might not be wrong, but can be questionable. If he wanted to go to lunch with a female friend, he would invite someone else along. That is just him. That goes the same for me.
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    It would depend on the situation.....

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    My hubby's philosophy is ''avoid all appearances of impropriety"(no he's not religious in case anyone gets that impression, far from it actually) that way it leaves no room for rumors and innuendos. If the situation is not required he doesn't place himself in situations where he's hanging out with another woman alone.

    This is for two reasons.

    1) He's seen and heard too many instances where a woman has falsely claimed sexual harrasment, it's not worth jeapordizing his carreer.

    2)Out of simple respect for me. He won't even allow a female friend of mine in the house if I'm not home.
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