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    s/o of 'is it cheating..'

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    Ok so reading the thread http://forum.militarysos.com/showthread.php?t=172461 I was getting curious.

    If you and your SO decide to have a 3some, would that be cheating in your eyes?




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    no. i don't think it would be.
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    If both partners are involved, then it's not an extracirricular activity. Therfore, it would not be cheating.
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    I believe it depends on what the situation is. For example, an ex and I wanted to go to a swingers club to check things out. He'd also talked about wanting to have a 3 some and I was okay with it. My current DB and I...I just can't imagine ever doing it. I would become jealous, probably feel betrayed. Now if I were bi-sexual, I think it would be cheating, trying to get the best of both worlds.
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    If they both agreed to it, I'd say that was swinging... not cheating LOL
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    I would kill someone if she touched my man in front of me...so yes to me a 3-some is cheating...and I couldn't handle seeing Db with anyone else...ugh!

    But I suppose if both people consented and that was the lifestyle they chose then I could see where that wouldn't be cheating...but I would NOT be okay with it!
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    No.......
    That's not cheating!!!!
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    Nope.
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    I don't see how a 3 some would be cheating when BOTH parties would be aware of what was going on and consent to it...

    Now if the wife/gf or husband/bf sleeps with the 3rd person unaware to his/her SO, then THAT would be cheating..
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    Not if you both agree with it.
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