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    Nutts Could you forgive you SO for cheating?

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    Could you forgive your So for cheating?
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    Would it be easier to forgive him for having phone sex vs physically cheating?
    What would it take for you to forgive him?
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    Nope. and that's a big FAT nope! We have already made an agreement. NO CHEATING. It's not an "excuse" for us. Mistakes like that don't happen for us. Either your with me or not. and vice versa.
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    Do I think I could ever forgive him? No. But would I try my damndest to make our marriage work if it was what he still wanted? Yes. Trust would be a long time coming.
    Needs work.
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    there is no excuse for cheating... if you even have the urge.. then ya.... you better just end things with me...
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    No, sorry but I have been there and done that in my 1st marriage and I can't put myself through that again.
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    No. I wouldn't stay with him, I wouldn't trust him again, I wouldn't give a second chance.

    If he were to cheat then there's obviously no respect for me from him and that just doesn't work with me.

    I know people are going to say "You NEVER know until you're in that situation ... blah blah" Yes, I DO KNOW that I would leave in a heartbeat. I love him more than anything in the world but for him to cheat on me? That means that love isn't there.
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    Dbl post!
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    Depends
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    No second chances, he and I have talked about what we both expect and won't tolerate and cheating is definately not a second chance, I'm sorry thing.
    Phone sex, chatting/flirting online yes it isn't physically cheating, but it is still wrong to lust after someone else if you are married and supposedly committed only to your spouse. And even though doing those things isn't cheating physically I would have trust issues and doubt put in my head that it could lead to that which would cause just as much problems as if he had done it. Long story short any of it to me is wrong if you are committed.
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    No way.. I'm a firm believer in "once a cheater, always a cheater." So if he was dumb enough to do it once, I couldn't trust him not to do it again.
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