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    Question Is it cheating, or expressing yourself?

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    I was watching Engaged and Underage and one girl was marrying an AF boy. She is Bi and said "He thinks just because we'll be married I'll magically be straight." but then later in the show she said he couldn't have another relationship (with a girl) while they are married (at least for a while) because she'll get jealous.

    IMO, if youre married and you have another carnal relationship in any form it's cheating. You are meant to be committing to one person. I don't care if it's a girl or guy, but once you make that commitment-youre meant to be with only THAT person.

    I know a lot of Bi people might feel differently, but thats how I feel. You?

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    I agree that once you are married a relationship outside the marriage is cheating
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    I think she's just greedy, sexually.....what a total hypocrite she is though!
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    once you are married thats it. Anything after that is cheating. End of story.
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    I think that it depends on how the SO feels, the best way to explain is by an example...I know a married couple and hubby is away a lot for his job, she is bi-sexual. He says that she is allowed to be with women while he is away, but not men. So in that situation I dont think it is cheating because he is okay with it. But in general yes I think it would be. Hope this makes sense, I am a little tired today. LOL
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    I think cheating is cheating regardless of the gender of the person you are with.
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    I think it depends on the marriage. If within a marriage it is understood that one partner is bi and would like to continue to have relations with that same sex and the other partner agrees to that, then for them it isn't cheating.
    Needs work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss B Hav'n View Post
    I think cheating is cheating regardless of the gender of the person you are with.
    i 100% agree.

    but i am curious, what did he think about it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Victoria View Post
    I think she's just greedy, sexually.....what a total hypocrite she is though!
    Right! I worked at a camp and all the lesbian girls also said that Bi girl's are greedy sexually. They say "they can't make up their mind, so they want it both ways." that's a whole nother debate....

    but yeah I was wondering.....after the show came out did she notice her hypocrisies?

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    no matter your sexual preference...cheating is cheating...especially when you are married...you are in a committed relationship with that ONE person...
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