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    Question Inspired by the BR thread

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    Just curious.

    At what age/time in her life do you feel a woman is mature enough to have children?

    How long do you feel a couple should be together before they start TTCing a baby?

    If you could have done it differently (waited or had children sooner) would you have?
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    Its different for every person.
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    Everyone is different.

    DJ and I would've been great parents the year after we got married (we would have been 23 and 24) but we chose to wait.
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    Well I would have waited only because 15 months is long time to be away from DH and if we wouldn't have gotten pregnant I'd be going with him then when we got back we would really be financially stable to have a baby...I mean we're good now on money but we'd be even better if we both deployed and both coming back with about 50 grand each
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    I really think it depends on each person. Ideally I do not think a 16 year old should be a mother, but I was and i think I did a good job with it. Although I did not plan it.

    I do think that if you think you are ready to have a baby, you should do as much research as possible to learn everything you can so that you can be prepared when it is time.
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    lol IF I were to say the right time is prob after I am married and in my mid 20s to have a baby so young means I would not be able to go and have free time... I know it sounds selfish but it is true...
    I mean for me....
    everyone is different I agree... it came out wrong i think
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    I definitely think it's different for everyone.
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    I definitely think it is different for everyone. I feel like me and hubby are ready (we are both 22) but I have friends who are the same age and feel they aren't ready to even think about it!
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    Each person matures differently, so it is different for each person.
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    If you can't take care of yourself, then you can't take care of a baby.

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