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    S/O of OH MY GOD OH MY GOD...Poll

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    Do you think its ok to snoop in your SO's email or myspace, their personal info without them knowing?
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    I personally said no. Cause if you can't trust them you shouldn't be with them.
    The only time I think its ok is when you are checking on your childs email.
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    IMO absolutely NOT. If you don't have that level of trust...you have bigger issues.
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    Voted No

    I will always say no matter what that trust is the basis of love.

    You should be able to trust your SO and not ever need to snoop. If you feel enough reason to...then you should be able to talk everything out and trust them that they are being truthful.. If you can't have that trust...then IMO...there is going to be difficultly having love.
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    Quote Originally Posted by USCGBoxerMom View Post
    IMO absolutely NOT. If you don't have that level of trust...you have bigger issues.
    I agree. and if I found out my SO was doing it to me I'd get mad too.
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    If you need to snoop you shouldn't be together. JMO. I have DBs passwords, I don't ever use them though, unless he calls and asks me to check something for him.

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    Other. We know each others passwords.
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    I guess because DH knows i go into his email I say yes.

    However I'm a firm believer in if there's nothing to hide then it shouldn't matter, he has all my pwords and I have all his.

    IMO: This lifestyle can make you EXTREMELY insecure at times and being able to look at things like that can make it go away... Totally in my opinion but I'm just saying..
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    Quote Originally Posted by USCGBoxerMom View Post
    IMO absolutely NOT. If you don't have that level of trust...you have bigger issues.

    I put other. If you have total trust like you should, you should have no want or need to look at email or myspace.
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    I voted NO because I trust DB 100%. That being said.......had he ever cheated on me, I might would check his email if I could.

    But as it is, we trust each other completely
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