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    Other. We know each others passwords.
    He checks stuff for me and I check stuff for him.

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    #32
    I think it's ok to snoop. I haven't, but I don't see a problem with it. He's my husband I wouldn't care if he snooped on me
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    I chose other. We have nothing to hide, we know each other's passwords.
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    I voted no. We do know each others passwords, but i trust him not to snoop on me. And i dont do it to him. Trust is the foundation of a relationship, in my opinion.
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    i don't think it's okay.

    that said, i HAVE done it before, and i'm pretty ashamed of it.
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    #36
    idk
    i've snooped trying to figure out what he got me for my birthday
    I think that trust is very important
    and you should never feel like you have to snoop to
    to get information
    that being said I think there are situations were snooping
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    I'm a firm believe that there ARE justified reasons!!!
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    #38
    Yep, because if they are being faithful and true, then they should have nothing to hide. I check DH's email all the time, and not to snoop to see if any girls or whatever are emailing him. Its because he rarely ever checks it, so I check it for him and let him know if he was emailed anything important that he needs to respond to.

    We know each others passwords and such, we don't keep things like that from each other.
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    #39
    I said it was okay...but I should have said other....Let me clarify. DH NEVER checks his myspace...he basically started it to keep intouch w/ family, and if weren't for me, he would never know when they email him. I know his passwords to all his accounts, but I never "snoop" but on that note, I know people who check there SO's accounts and for the most part- they are just re-affirming their trust in that person... And I see nothing wrong w/ that. I guess it could be viewed that its sad they have a skewed vision of their relationship that they feel like they need that affirmation...but really, I don't see it as a problem... JMO though
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    I do NOT think it's okay to snoop. This is one place dh and I differ. Now, he knows my myspace password and he can check it as much as he likes, that's fine. But if he's reading my personal emails I'd be furious. I think everyone has their right to some amount of privacy. There is not one single thing in my email I need or want to hide from my dh but I do not think he should EVER need to snoop by reading my email. That's just crossing the line IMO. My friends share things that are personal to THEM, they don't mean dh to read them.
    Aubrey



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