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View Poll Results: Is it ok to snoop in your SO's email/myspace

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    I have no reason to snoop on my DH. Sometimes he'll ask me to go into his email for something and I feel weird doing it
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    #92
    I've done it before.. It caused alot of problems for us because I was just bored when I did it, but then I found stuff that shouldn't have been there.. and he got mad that I snooped.. I have occasionally since then, but its like building the turst back up because I haven't found anything since then so I stopped snooping .. To each their own.

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    I don't feel right about checking it.
    I have his email password, and his myspace.
    The only one I don't have is his work email and thats understandable.
    I don't feel comfortable checking it without him knowing.
    he thinks its funny because I always have to announce what I'm going to do.
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    #94
    I don't have to snoop because we share email accounts and he doesn't have MySpace. Although, I don't think it is okay to snoop because being married doesn't mean an automatic end to privacy. That being said, I don't think that people who want full disclosure from their spouses are automatically in a relationship lacking trust. I just think they have different expectations and every relationship is different because every person is different.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wicked View Post
    I don't have to snoop because we share email accounts and he doesn't have MySpace. Although, I don't think it is okay to snoop because being married doesn't mean an automatic end to privacy. That being said, I don't think that people who want full disclosure from their spouses are automatically in a relationship lacking trust. I just think they have different expectations and every relationship is different because every person is different.
    nicely said
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